From: mummaleah - I just spoke to her on MSN and she said she would rather live in a refuge than come home. SO as u might guess I'm writing through tears. I just don't know what I've done to make her hate me so much and I jsut don't know where to turn to fix this problem. I just can't stop crying and my other kids are starting to notice the strain. After all there are only so many trips you can make to the toilet to cry before the think something is up. If any one has some advice please let me know I've hit a rock and just feel so lost.