I just had breakfast & am returning …
I just had breakfast & am returning some e-mails. Days 6 :-)
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Okay so there were like 3-4 e-mails today, but I could barely read them because I didn't want to get caught, but they were mostly harmless, but it still pissed me off, he's telling her he has Ian today and he doesn't know what they should do, does she have any ideas, where does she take her kids etc. Why doesn't he fucking ask me!!!!???
But they were going back and forth like, chatting about shit-again, I don't think he's physically cheating but he hardly talks to me and he has time to banter with her all morning!?
Then the best part, he deletes all the e-mails just from her, even empties the deleted files etc. He doesn't even know I'm checking and he does this? He must be feeling guilty or something!
I can't hold out much longer but I am wanting to wait and see how much more I can discover before I say something, as it is now, I am about to blow up and when I confront him I may go to far and ask him to leave or something...
I feel really anxious and upset, I want to cry-I don't need this on top of everything else, I really don't.
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I'm so sorry about this, Jeannette. If it's all so innocent, he wouldn't be deleting the emails. Sign of a guilty conscience.
Lynne
lycesq
Oh crap---this is not good. I agree with Lynne, this is not normal behavior for someone who supposedly has nothing to hide. I don't blame you for being upset. So sorry Jeannette...
MsRigorMortis
I'm sorry to hear this..but the ladies are right if he didn't feel he was doing anything wrong he would'nt be hiding his relationship with this woman,he may not be doing any physical cheating but to me emotional cheating is just as bad..just hold your head up and try to hold off on confronting him till you have better evidence..and don't let him turn it around on you and make you feel bad for snooping..cause he will try..been there done that
dustyv99
why is he asking her where she takes her kids ...does she live close enough to meet her and then say "guess who i ran into?" i don't want to add fuel to the fire...but i agree w/dusty...wait a little longer, but if you do get into an argument, DON"T apologize for snooping. he WILL try to make you feel guilty, and you are NOT! i love you babe, and i am so sorry for you to go thru this mess. ma
janey
I agree with Janey sweetie...and you know Ma and Auntie M always have your back. I am n9ot sure exactly what all is going on, did I miss a journal? I am here sweetie, and I support and love you like my own child, so know you are NOT alone! love ya, Auntie M
bizemomm
Hey, this sucks for you and I am so sorry you have this on top of everything else! Perhaps he is only deleting them because he knows you would be upset if you found out, even though it is innocent. It seems that you and he have had a lot of stress at your home lately. Could the two of you possibly get away together for the weekend and have a chance to really connect with no kids, no work pressures, no anything stressful? I am thinking about you and I hope that you can get this worked out and soon! Love, April
aprilrenae
So sorry you are having to go through this. I would also agree with Lynne. You really should talk to him though and voice your concern. It may be innocent, but he needs to know how you feel. Hugs,D
Dawn2