I am new to this site. I am a recent nonsmoker. I had been a smoker for more than 20 years. I quit on January 1, 2007. Right now, I am having difficulties. I don't want to go back to smoking but my poor attitude is ruining my relationship, especially with my boyfried of almost 2 years. I must admit, a lot of the reason I quit was for him but not all. Some was for me. I began working out and trying to work off the extra pounds I have gained. What I am struggling with now is the mood swings and the definite possibility of an extemely important relationship I have ending. My boyfried does not smoke. He quit about 4-5 years ago. I have been to a doctor and start counselling tomorrow.