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It has gotten bad here with my husband Kevin; dont get me wrong I love him till death however he has not want to be intimate with me for reasons that I have heard just cause I sit around he is drifting aparthowever for the past week I have been great and Kevin does not want to talk about it.I started to massage him and he turns over.I am STARVING for attention he kisses me however Peanut gets his attention.We r talking about a man who taught me everything.He is on ritilin for ADD however I did not see any sexual effects I do not want to loose him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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sometimes medications can cause loss of sexual desire.you need to look up ritilin and see what the side effects are .xoxoxoxoxoxox
dizzylizzie
thatswhat I thought however I looked it up.Im way in menapause so dont have toi obsess about it.I even said for the 1st time my chest is big ...... we will work it out
etmet
Medications can effect loss of desire, in the past it has for me. Thinking of you
chatters
Try to get some counseling Ellen .. sometimes a pro can see something we cannot see .. hope it works sweetie .. U 2 r great together .. Love BB Ray
Raynow
Hello, I understand your struggle w/ur husband because when my husband stopped drinking 4 plus yrs before his death. he didn't want to be inimate & even asked me to find another man to fullfill my needs, but being a Christian I SAID "NO WAY", & then when get got cancer it was worse, He would ask me to massage his back & legs * he called my hands, "YOU HAVE HEALING HANDS" but still didn't want me inimately....I STRUGGLED with the rejection till he passed away, but I knew that he LOVED ME, but JUST COULDN'T PERFORM ANYMORE!!! So I have been NON sexually active for over 5 1/2yrs, So I have just resigned myself to the fact I won't ever be sexually active the rest of my life. I have Fibro, Lupus, Anxiety, Arthritis, & now Cancer & I'm only 49, it sucks....I really miss being touched & held...there is times that I cry myself to sleep thinking I'm just not good enough for anybody...so I deal w/that everyday....IT DOES SOMETHING TO YOU THAT EXPLAINING TO OTHERS THEY JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!! I hope we can be friends & I will PRAY for YOU, THAT IS THE ONLY THING THAT HAS HELPED ME & talking to my Counselor, who is a Christian, it does help. Just SO YOU KNOW I HAVE NEVER TOLD ANYBODY THIS BEFORE, except for my counselor. SO YOU KNOW MORE ABOUT ME THAN ANYBODY ON DS & GF's site. I just try not to think about it! God Bless & KNOW I'M THERE FOR YOU!!!!! Karen
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