I'm Happy
June 6, 2008 2:26am
That about says it all. 1 1/2 years later and the divorce isn't over yet but I am HAPPY!
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About Me
I am a father of 3 great kids. 2 boys and a girl. I am dealing with not only a divorce, but realizing that my wife has lied to me since our first date over 19 years ago. Her more recent lies have been about having cancer, finances, not having an affair, and about me abusing her and my kids. It's a lot to deal with learning my last 19 years with the person I trusted most have been filled with lies.
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My interest used to be repairing my marriage. My wife has made that nothing more then a pipe dream. Now, my interest will be to try and be the best father a kid could hope for.
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Journal Entry for April 1, 2008
April 1, 2008 10:03pm
Hey everyone!!
I'm still kicking. Nope not an April fools joke. It is really me. I hope all of you are doing well and that …
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Lots of Big (((HUGS))) for you today! Smiles :)
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hi there---hope ur day is better---lol-leelee
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big hugs to one of my bestes friends in the world --even tho we dont talk anymore --lol
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(((HUG-HUG))) Have lots of fun with the little ones...Smiles :)
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hellomy friend--how r u -sorry i was soaking up the sun and when i heard my phone u already hung up --i'll call back in a min --talking to Brent --hugs
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Close Breakups & Divorce
My wife wants a divorce. I don't think she believes that I still lover her, and even if she believed that she tells me that she isn't "in love" with me. We have 3 kids who will suffer even more then I do. She also thinks that I haven't been faithful to her. I have. I think that may just be her way of justifying her own extra marital activities.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- She quit. It didn't work because she didn't really try.
- Pets Working / Worked
- I'm never alone. That helps. I have a 1.5 year old German Shorthair Pointer. She drives me crazy at time but I love her.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- I couldn't do it without them.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Time Working / Worked
Close Infidelity
Bad wife! She lies and cheats. She can look me in the eyes and tell me somethink I know is a lie. It all makes me wonder what the hell I was thinking. How could I have been fooled by her for 20 years? I know love is blind but where in teh world were my seeing eye dogs. She fooled everyone.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Failed. She walked out and didn't care enouph to go back.
- Divorce Working / Worked
- SHe filed. I don't have a choice. I just need to make the best of it.
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