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    About Me

    I'm a special ed teacher and the mom of 3 great kids. My daughter is 19. I just bought an old fixer upper and I'm spending my free time working on it and the yard, when I'm not procrastinating.

    Interests

    running, exercising, reading, gardening, my kids, music, teaching

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    • cinaflower gave SadTime Flowers 9:34am

      Your flowers and yard look great too! I wish I could stay home and do that all day- covered in dirt and…  
  • Journal

    • Journal Entry for August 19, 2008

      Mood August 19, 2008 11:30pm

      It's been so busy busy busy!!!

      It's 10pm and the little one is still not finished with homework. He had football practice today and we …

    • Journal Entry for August 18, 2008

      Mood August 18, 2008 6:37pm

      I made it through Monday so far!!! Last week went so fast and so did the weekend.

      I had fun this weekend. We got to New Orleans at about 4pm on …

    • Hooray for the weekend!!!!

      Mood August 16, 2008 11:37am

      Yesterday, I was emailing a friend and he wrote me and asked if my enthusiasm was genuine because I was really excited and happy and cheerful at …

    • thankful

      Mood August 14, 2008 11:02pm

      I'm doing better, feeling better, feeling a little less stressed, feeling nicer to the h, I knew I wouldn't stay all stuck in the …

    • crazy life

      Mood August 13, 2008 11:16am

      Yesterday was crazy but I got it all done. Work, home, uniforms, haircuts, football practice, signing papers, filling out forms for the …

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    • Hug

      From mrsmixedup Monday

      Hope you had a GREAT weekend!

    • Hug

      From msheather Saturday

      Hope you're doing well.

    • Congrats

      From SadTime Friday

      Do you have any pitures of the inside of this wonderful house to post? I would just love to see the inside and get a better idea of the overall house itself. I reminds me of a wonderful country type of cottage home. I just love it. Mine here in Stockton is a three bedroom single story. Huge gardens outside. My home is 60 years old and the water pipes are just falling apart. I keep trying to get my church family to assist with some of my needs here but it has been like pulling teeth form a mountain lion for the past five plus years since my husband died. I'm just so weary anymore of hearing excuses as to why the help never comes. Has really made my disability extremely severe at times. But in time I know everything will work out well. God just gives me that hope. Patricia

    • Congrats

      From SadTime August 14

      Love the house with the back yard and your flower garden. Very nice. Is it one story with a huge attic or is it a two story? Patricia

    • Hug

      From SadTime August 14

      Thank you for the warm welcome. I have morning glories beginning to cover the front garden fence. They are white, pink and a purple/pink variety. Very pretty. Very easy to go also. Patricia

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  • Goals

    Progress

    25 %

    Goal End Date is Aug 31, 08 10 more days.
    Goal Completed on Jun 19, 08
  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      I started dating my husband my senior year in high school. Six months later I was pregnant, married, and in college. 20 years and 3 kids later it's very difficult to decide if we should stay together or not.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      forgiving your spouse for whatever it is frees your spirit up so that you can work on today, forgiving yourself and recognizing your wrongs allows you to have compassion
      Love Somewhat Helpful
      Psychotherapy Somewhat Helpful
      Helped me understand myself and what I do a bit more.
      Support from Friends & Family Not Working
      Family and friends aren't supportive and don't know what to say. They don't understand.
      Time Working / Worked
      I think sometimes if you hang in there and you both are honest and working on yourselves and the relationship it's possible to save things.
    • Close Eating Disorders

      I've been a compulsive eater most of my life, I got up to about 240. About the same time I was at an all time high my daughter was diagnosed with anorexia. I was 240, she was 84 lbs. When I finally picked myself up by my bootstraps to take care of her and my family I realized that I needed to change, to stop sitting around feeling sorry for myself and just make my life better.

      Treatments

      Outpatient Treatment Program Somewhat Helpful
      The nutritionist refused to keep seeing my daughter because she wasn't trying- but I kept up with the plan myself for her. Therapy helped us all.
    • Open Diets & Weight Maintenance

      Treatments

      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Working / Worked
      Carbs! I try to stay away from the white stuff- it's like crack!
      Eat Less Working / Worked
      I just try to eat less, try to think about it being just enough.
      Weight Watchers Somewhat Helpful
      I lost and gained several times, but I wasn't ready when I tried this.
    • Open Fitness Goals
      Type: Be the best you can be

      I was 240! I've lost 45 pounds so far mostly by just refusing to sit around feeling sorry for myself. I went from barely being able to walk a mile to being able to run a mile. I try not to eat white carbs and to not use food to make me feel better.

      Treatments

      Running Working / Worked
      A year ago I started running. One minute at a time. One minute was hard! Can run a mile now without dying. It really transformed my body and my outlook on life.
    • Open Healthy Sex

      cinaflower hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Stress Management

      I am a working mother with 3 kids ages 19-9. My marriage has been iffy and I'm so stressed out!!!!!

      Treatments

      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      Running and walking helped a lot, right now my back hurts when I walk or run so I have to figure that out.
    • Open Hysterectomy

      I had an endometrial ablation/tubal ligation/hysterscope last Nov. now having severe cramps and hormonal mood swings!

    • Open Healthy Relationships

      I've been married 20 years, which is truly a miracle after all we've been through.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
      it helped to have someone to talk to but it didn't solve any issues- the hardest stuff has to be worked out alone
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      sometimes time and working through your own stuff brings enlightenment in the most interesting ways
      Talking Working / Worked
      it always helps to talk things out, to be honest and forthcoming with your spouse
      Writing Working / Worked
      I have to write, I'm the only one who listens to me
    • Open Smoking Addiction & Recovery

      I smoked on and off since I was 14 years old. I was never a heavy smoker- maybe smoked 7 a day at the worst or half a pack if I was drinking or stressed, but I didn't even really like it- but I kept doing it! Just one more- for years!!!!! I quit two weeks ago and I'm going to be fine without it and maybe I'll be a better runner someday for it.

      Treatments

      Cold Turkey Working / Worked
      I just stopped. I stopped buying them, and talked myself out of needing it every day until it wasn't the only thing on my mind.
      Willpower Working / Worked
      just quit, period
    • Open Menopause

      I'm 39. I had endometrial ablation in Nov. 2006, had a total abdominal hysterectomy Nov. 2007- had adenomyosis, thought I was healing slowly- had fluid in ab- went in for a lap and woke up without ovaries (hem. cysts, adhesions, etc.) and now about to hit menopause!

      Treatments

      Estrogen Patch Working / Worked
      It's only been a week.
    • Open Rosacea

      I had lovely skin until I was around 30. I had acne and my face got redder and redder and thick and just not nice. I've been using metrogel and other products for years and it's much better although not gone. Alcohol makes me flush. The blushing gets embarrassing too!

      Treatments

      MetroGel Working / Worked
      been putting it on every morning for nearly 10 years- it helps a lot
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