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Wednesday, June 4, 2008

I am divorced and I can't stop crying. I feel like such a fool.

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you are so not a fool!!! he is such a loser!!!

justthe5ofus
get a towel and let it all out, tears are cleansing

GeocacherNY
I am so sad that you are divorced, life wasn't meant to turn out this way. You are not a fool, you're an innocent victim, but now you will be a survivor! I'm glad you can't stop crying, it shows you are a fully feeling human. Marriage is a spiritual joining, so much more so when you have children, and the ending of a marriage is like tearing your heart. Mourn it, let it out, and you'll be surprised how quickly you'll begin to bounce back and enjoy your new life, free from his control. My prayers are with you.

Danni515
take care.

Cynthia35
It is ok to feel the way you do.. The tears lead to healing and one day when you least expect it,. a smile will find you. Big hugs to you, Kimmee

kimmeee
I think it's okay to cry about this. You're mourning a loss. I'm sorry you went through this, but I'm glad for you that you're past it. I'm envious, actually.

FrankLawyer
I did the samething once my divorce was final. We both waited to open the papers together. He was upset but it takes a little while for things to set in for me and when it did sink in I was unconsoleable. I was the one who filed and I was the one who wanted it but it was still a very sad situation. Even though it's for the best, it still wasn's supposed to happen. We don't get married with the intention of it falling apart. You want your life back, the life you know. Now having to start over is scarey. It's scarey but it's do-able. And you CAN do it.

JacJac
I did this too...its about losing a dream you had but it can also mean a new start and a chance for happiness!

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