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Journal Entry for October 5, 2008 Mood
Sunday, October 5, 2008

As most of you know, I am dealing with advanced breast cancer.  We have several other women in our group who are also fighting this battle.  This disease has reached what the doctors consider epidemic proportions.  For me, and many others, there is NO history of breast cancer in our families.  "Zero risk" no longer exists.

 

I am asking each and every one of you to take charge of your healthcare.  Do your monthly self exams and, if over 40, get your annual mammogram.  If you feel something 'different', get it checked.  If you don't feel satisfied with the answer, get a second opinion or demand a DIAGNOSTIC mammogram.  You know your body better than anyone else does.  Seven years ago, had I ignored the tiredness I had felt for a year, had I taken the word of the doctor who said I had fibroids, had I not insisted on the diagnostic mammogram - I would not be here today.  I am asking you all to do this one favor for me, for your family, for yourselves.

 

God bless -

Barbara


If you go to Purina Cat Chow's web site & take a test on your knowledge of breast cancer they will donate $1 to the Susan G.Komen foundation.  The 5 questions are not difficult & you keep going until you guess right.
Here's the web site:

http://www.catchow.com/pink/

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  1. Denimari

    Barbara; I know so many women in this area who are battling with it also. My prayers will go up for you; and everyone who is in treatment. I will ask God to guide the doctors minds, and thoughts and to please cure you - I will pray for a complete healing to be restored to you; my intentions will be posted on a prayer request as well. Love you so much honey;
    hope you have implemented the "special" diet into your daily routine. God bless & keep you strong.
    Love you,


    Denimari

  2. candiceS

    After seeing first hand all that my aunt went through with her breast cancer, and the devastation, the heart-ache, the pain she endured it made me more self aware. She is a health nut in every way, doesn't smoke, eats properly, exercises, and no history of breast cancer.
    It is my hope that all women will do as you said and be aware of their bodies, do self exams, and be persistent when it comes to the doctor's they don't know our bodies as we do!! I will keep all of those suffering from this horrible cancer in my prayers. That God will grant healing, knowledge, strength, and hope for a cure one day. Take care. Love and hugs to all.
    Candice


    candiceS

  3. JerryJsMom

    Thank you for the reminder. Personally, I've put getting my annual mammogram on the back burner with everything else that has come up. My doctor has been keeping tabs on a lump in my right breast for 11 years now and it's been 2 years since I last had it checked. I'll make a point of following up now. Thank you.


    JerryJsMom

  4. ColleenF

    Thank you. I have a friend who just felt a lump. She hadn't told her husband yet but she told me. I don't understand why she's dragging her feet. I got a phone # for her to call for a free or low cost mammogram but she has not made the call. It's been 1 week. I will email her this note from you in hopes that it does the trick.
    I love you
    Colleen


    ColleenF

  5. AnnM

    Dear Turtle Dove,
    Thank you. I will get right on it as I was due last month, but so busy I let the time slip by. It is so easy to do this in our busy lives. My mother is a breast cancer survivor...15 years now...no previous family history. Guess we do now...
    Love,
    me
    To all of you:
    This is Breast Cancer Awarness Month...please spread the word. I sent a donation to our local chapter & wear the breast cancer pin to remind others of this. Please follow Barb's heartfelt advice...it could mean your life. Haven't our families suffered enough?
    Ann


    AnnM

  6. robin47

    Thanks for the reminder and I hope you are feeling better. I will go to the web site.
    Love,
    Robin


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  7. JoanneW

    Thank You, I have not had a check up since 06. Got an appt for end of month. Love Joanne


    JoanneW

  8. mdjmom

    Barb, you know all about my first mammogram, which turned into a biopsey.....I will never let another mammogram go for that long again....Learned my lesson....and you helped me through that lesson, but do you know anything about kidney stones??????? luv, Pam


    mdjmom

  9. joeymom

    I am one to igorne medicial issues since Joe passed. Thanks for knocking some sense into my head.
    Hope you feel better. Love & Hugs, Lucille


    joeymom

  10. grndmudder

    Barbara, I was diagnosed with stage 2A breast cancer in summer of 2005. I have been in remission 2 years. I got my yearly Mamograms!Thank The Lord! The Doctors are all optomistic about me, but who knows? What is the diffrence in a Diognostic mamogram and a regular one? It would seem like I would have been told, or know this, bing in my presant state! I never knew there was more than one kind. I still go for check ups with my Chemo, and Radiation Drs. Thank you. and Ladies Barbara is so right. Get to the Mammograms right on time every year! I believe it saved my life.(so far at least) Thank you Barbara,Love sister,Peggy


    grndmudder

  11. 4meg

    I think there are very few of us who don't know someone, or more than one person fighting the fight. Thanks for the sound advice Barb. I took the Purina Cat Chow test....it only took a minute...so everyone go to that sight and take the test!! Love ya Barb!


    4meg

  12. MartinsMom

    Thank you Barb for all your advice to us Moms. I see cancer everday and some days I get so sad when I see what you all go thru I hate it. My grandmother had advanced breast cancer at 45 and she lived to 92. Nobody is safe anymore and we all need to take charge of our health. One of the most important things we can do is change how we eat and what we eat. Juicing is the best for our body.


    MartinsMom

Journal Entry for October 4, 2008 Mood
Saturday, October 4, 2008

Please reach out to these new moms in our group.  Remember that

 they have come to us for help as we once joined for that same reason.

 

Darmae in Arizona

Dolaronron who lost her son, Jeremy

ESJ who lost her 6 year old

gmajackie who lost her son JR, age 26

IrishMum whose daughter, Katelyn, age 6, was hit by a car

JaniceS who lost Jessy, age 12, to illness

JasonsMom31 lost her son, Jason, age 31

JillsMom lost Jill, age 21, in a car accident

JudyWI

Kakiana lost her only son, Matthew, age 19, to illness

Katy123 has lost 2 children

Linjay lost Jay, 26, in a boating accident

Lucy40 lost Kevin, age 28, to a heart attack

MamsBoy lost her only child, Richard, 32, to illness

MaryGhostMom1 lost her son Jason, 21, to violent crime

MissingMy2children lost Isaac, a newborn, and Gabriel, age 9

Misty4u1978 lost Bryar in a drowining incident

Mpie lost her daughter, Morgan, who was hit by a car

sadgmother lost Jenny, age 32

SkittlezMom lost Lindsay, age 19, in a car accident

Weaknfalling lost Thomas, age 17, in a car accident

WilliamsMom lost William, age 19, to illness

 

 

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  1. tomtom

    Will do. Thanks for info. Pat


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  2. Robin4

    Oh Barb, when will it end????? I know that's a dumb question but my heart breaks everytime I read another mother has to join our group. I'm glad they have come to this site because we all know we are stronger because of you and all these wonderful women. Thanks Robin


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  3. grndmudder

    I am sorry that each of you have to come here, because, of it means you have suffered such an awful loss. I do hope you find as much comfort here as I have. DS has helped me and made me feel a lot less alone, So many Mom's are broken just like me. I lostmy youngest son,Paul at 29 from an accidental drug/alchol overdose in 2003, and Steven, my older son at 38 from suicide in dec. 2007, and my stepdayghter in Aug, 2008 from a self inflicted gunshot wound. I would be happy to share my saddness, and my journey through it's ups and downs, with anyone. Through DS or grndmudder@aol.com
    personally. My prayers, and my love to all of your broken hearts,Peggy


    grndmudder

  4. RememberKala

    It's so heartbreaking.


    RememberKala

Journal Entry for October 3, 2008 Mood
Friday, October 3, 2008

From MaryGhostMom1:

In my group Unsolved Murders: Support Group, I wrote a discussion post today called Who the hell am I?. Can I ask all of my friends to read it and when you get to the end, answer the questions and send me your answers. My group is lovely, strong, but small. We are only 7 people so far but I really would value your answers to my questions, I can use your help. I appreciate it so much. As always, love and hugs. Mary

 

From roknauntt:

I am sending you all a great big hug. I want to tell you all that I enjoy your hugs and your friendships. I hope all is well with everyone. I have not been on lately because I have been really busy at work and I am still having issues with my home computer. But when I can get one I try to look you all up and see how things are. I am here and I am okay. I am enjoying Washington States fall weather it is so beautiful. Well you all take it easy and may God watch over you all and give you the strength to continue to make it through each day. And know we all have a special angles watching over us. Love you all Tammie

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  1. grndmudder

    Mary, I could not find where this question was posted. I am a mother that lost 1 son to accidental overdose, and 1 to suicide, and my step daughter in a accidental or intentional shooting.(they have not tlad us clearly yet what happened.) I would be glad to read and commment on you Post " Who the Hell am I" if I could find it. Can you send me directions, or is the group only for mom's of murdered children. I am very sorry and God be with you.Peggy, grndmudder@aol.com


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  2. Snack

    I agree with Marys' comments, I also couldn't find anything. May God bless you-you have had your share of troubles.


    Snack

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