Journal Entry for October 19, 2007
October 19, 2007 3:34pm
THANKYOU EVERYONE FOR ENCOURAGING ME TO SEE ELLIE...I SAW HER TODAY FOR TEA WITH ME ALL THE GRANDCHILDREN TOGETHER AND ELLIE CALLED ME GRANDMA …
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Iansmum
is feeling OK
not so bad thanks to my lovely friends
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About Me
my son aged 28 took his own life in september 2006 i dont think I will ever get over it. i run two groups one for careleavers of barnardos and the other for those whose lives have been affected by suicide. my husband who had lymphoma for 8 years has since died on 22nd may 2007 I love gardening and decorating & since I have been left on my own I am enjoying it more than I did, lets say I appreciate it and throw myself into it now. I now work 3 mornings a week doing voluntary work and it has helped me with my loneliness and also I have such fun!
Interests
gardening thats about it just now!! and of course the grandchildren
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Prayer
Sending you prayer, love and hugs. I want you to know how much I care and understand your pain. I pray that you are able to find healing and peace in your heart.
Prayer
Hello Sheila, I am sending you prayers and hugs your way. You have been on my mind and I wanted you to know I care. I hope your weekend is great. Take time to take care of YOU! Love & Hugs, Judy
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I was concerned about you and am sending my thoughts and prayers to you. hugs jrmom
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Hope you are doing okay today!
I’m With You
I'm here if you need someone to talk to..
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Childmy son took his own life last year in the most dreadful way imagineable http://ian-james-fosternumberonecityfan.gonetoosoon.co.uk/
Treatments
- Crying Working / Worked
- it comes voluntarily
- Reflexology Working / Worked
- i am due to go in 2 weeks
- Writing Working / Worked
- i write when i can on the gone too soon memorial site and it helps me to think that i am not alone in my grief and also puts me in touch with others, its a lovely site!
- Lexapro Working / Worked
- not sure if its working or not
Close Depression
my son took his own life in september 2006 and i am having a terrible time in trying to get from one day to the next
Treatments
- Lexapro Working / Worked
- i started taking this just before IAN died, im not sure if it is working or noe!!
Open Stress Management
i feel alot of stress in my life
Treatments
- Lexapro Working / Worked
- i used to be adicted to ativan for 7 years and i am sure this is why i am so stressed all the time
Open Non-hodgkin's Lymphoma
Type: Low Grade Non-Hodgkin\'smy husband has had lymphoma now for about 3 years it used to be waldenstroms
Treatments
- Chemotherapy Working / Worked
Open Anger Management
i have terrible anger and communication issues
Open Step Families
I was married to a man with 2 older children of 39 and 40. My husband died a month ago and I am being harrassed for the family photos, even though I only lost my son 8 months ago too. \i feel quite threatened by themm all and very vulnerable. I have never been particularly close to them but trevor was close to my family.
Open Families & Friends Affected By Suicide
http://ian-james-fosternumberonecityfan.gonetoosoon.co.uk/ my son Ian took his own life last september by setting himself alight on the beach at blackpool. I tried to get him sectioned but I wasnt listened to
Treatments
Open Family & Friends of Bipolar
my son lived with a girl who had bi pola disorder, and they had a little girl, lynette was always very irrational and sometimes screaming and so nasty to Ian. Anyway after Ellie was a year old Lynette prevented my son from seeing her totally, Ian took it to court and she just intimidated him. however he couldnt bear it any longer and he took his own life last year. She now says we can see the daughter after 3 years but I dont know if I want to.
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