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Feeling Sad...... Mood

Friday, July 4, 2008 | A Sad story

Missing him. My therapist said I will never really know for sure, but based on my ex spending time with his "new friend" even when the kids are with him, it really does sound like they are more than friends. She said whether she is or isn't more than a friend, I will have to come to terms with the idea that he may have left me for another woman.

That hurts......

I've kind of known all along that this probably IS what happened, but to hear someone actually say it out loud? Doesn't feel so hot.

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It's a shame he couldn't just come out and tell you, but seems to also fit past behaviors. I won't bother with all the pep talk stuff about how you deserve better, because I know a part of you knows this. It sounds like you just need to mourn a bit, find acceptance of what is... and it can be a painful time. You are doing for yourself now what you know you need to do.... this is all part of moving on. It took me forever, and I still have moments where I don't feel so strong... so just know you are not alone, and it will get better with time.

riverwalker
I DO know that I am better off without him for so many reasons. Not just for me, but for our kids too. There are so many things we are not on the same page about and he lacks good judgement and/or morales at times. Unfortunately, my head knows that all too well.... but my heart just won't get with the program!

stiimpee