I recently attended a grief support group and we talked about hope and healing. This has been an espcially hard week, yesterday would have been my parent's 50th anniversary, plus this upcoming Sat. would have been my Dad's birthday. I find I am still struggling, daily, but know I need to go on. Everyone tells me " it will take time", that is the hard thing for me. I am a very anal person and like everything to be organized, and I know I cannot organize my feeling or how long this process takes, but have learned a great deal, in my support group.