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I am in a tough situation because I am just figuring out that the reason I am probably in love with a guy is because it is challenging and I like to try to take care of him and his problems. I want to figure out if the relationship can be good or not and if he loves me. He and I have split once before and got back together but when we split I met another man that treated me like gold and did everything he could for me. It seemed too good to be true and the old boyfriend kept calling and stuff until I took him back. I have tried to forget about the good guy and just let that be but it is hard. It is going against my nature I think to be with the good guy and stay away from the other one. They both say they love me but the first one I dated for 3 years and the good guy for a month or so we hung out. I am still getting messages from the good guy even though I have left him alone to find someone else and forget about me because I don't know what I want. I have a lot of problems making decisions. I have made more pros and cons lists than I can cound and have asked every friend I have. Most of my friends say that they wouldn't want to be in my shoes :( I am trying to stay sane through this BIG mess. It's hard though.
