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    About Me

    34 years old and going through a divorce. I have two children that are 9 and 2 1/2. I have two dogs and two cats. I am trying to stay strong and go through with my divorce.I love my husband but he has proven to me that he will not change.

    Interests

    animals, my kids, the beach, hanging out with friends....

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    • Why Why Why

      Mood September 15, 2008 12:30pm

       

      What is the problem with me that I just cannot break  free?  He has been home for almost one year and it has not been good.  I …

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    • 7/24/08

      Mood July 23, 2008 9:28am

      Why do i keep checking up on him when I already know what I will find?  Why do I care who he speaks to and how many times he calls these …

    • 7/23/08

      Mood July 22, 2008 12:29pm

       

      How many chances does he think I will give him?  How many times do I need to tell him what a marraige should be like?  I am not a …

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      Nothing much. Just busy busy. What about you, hun? Haven't seen you in a while. How've you been? *big hug* =D

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  • Goals

    Go through with divorce

    Progress

    50 %

    Goal End Date is Aug 1, 08 126 days ago.

  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      I love my husband but I dont love his actions. I filed for divorce and feel very wishy washy about it. He promises change, but has promised it before. He begs me to cancel the divorce but I dont think he will change. I dont know what to do. How many chances do you give someone?

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
      I tried to forgive him for leaving me alone for two years with two kids, one of them only 6 weeks old at the time due to poor choices but then he came home and went right back to the poor choices. The things that I said I would not tolerate and I find myself tolerating which is why I filed.
      Leave Somewhat Helpful
      I dont know. He did leave and I missed him. But he is back and I cant stand his actions. I dont know.
      Love Not Working
      I have stood by him and supported him through everything. He has never been loved before. Sometimes, I guess love is not enough.
      Music Working / Worked
      Listening to music that makes me feel strong works.
      Pets Working / Worked
      I feel good when I go to take my dogs to the beach or for a walk.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Reading Working / Worked
      I love self help books - especially Women Who Love Too Much - that is me.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      It's always helpful to talk to others that know how you feel.
      Talking Working / Worked
      It works, but nobody can make the decision but me
      Time Too Soon to Tell

    • Close Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

      I have had OCD for about 6 years and it seems to be getting worse. I have compulsive thoughts that just wont go away. When I think of something, I have to do it or I will start to feel sick. I was just taken off of Zoloft and put on Prozac. I am hoping that will work.....I have a lot of anxiety and also deperession.

      Treatments

      Anafranil Working / Worked
      Lexapro Working / Worked
      worked for a little while, then it wore off
      Luvox Too Soon to Tell
      Paxil Working / Worked
      worked but made me gain weight
      Remeron Working / Worked
      helped me sleep but HUGE weight gainer
      Zoloft Not Working
      I swear it was a placebo

    • Open Codependency

      Codependent and having a problem getting away from it

      Treatments

      Reading Working / Worked
      some books help
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      it works, but a lot of times I am repeating myself over and over and over.

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