RMSClk’s Profile

Close Breakups & Divorce

my wife decided that she doesn't love me and she left me and our daughter for another man. I'm positive that there are things that i've either done wrong or could do better that lead to this, but she isn't telling me them right now. I'm just waiting and trusting in the Lord to bring her back to me and I have to trust Him to do it. her heart has grown cold towards me and she has no interest to even try to repair our marriage.

Treatments

Couples Counseling Considering

I'm waiting for her to agree to enter into counselling either with or without me. I am going to be going to a counsellor shortly, so that when she is ready to come home, she can see that I've done work to become the man she needs me to be. .

Forgiveness Not Working

I've already forgiven her in my heart. just waiting for her to ask for it now.

Leave Not Working

She left... It doesn't work very well when there is no contact.

Love Not Working

I've decided to stand by my wife, no matter what. she is not thinking straight and when she gets through what ever it is that she's going through, she'll come home to her daughter and I.

Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful

Everyone is surrounding us with their love and support. I've asked everyone to keep their personal opinions to themselves and to just shower their love and support on her. She doesn't need to be treated like a leper...she needs to know that, despite making mistakes, she is still loved by all.

Talking Not Working

I'm trying to get her to talk. when we do talk i only use phrases like "when you come home" and "once this is over" to reinforce that I will not give up on her and that she is the most precious thing to me.

Time Too Soon to Tell

I'm hoping that a few months or less will be enough time for her to get through this, but reality says that I will be doing the single dad thing for a few years before my wife is ready to come home.