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kev0383
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About Me
I'm a 25 yr old electrical engineer who's almost finished with a loooong college career. I've got a lot going for me, but have been struggling with loneliness following the end of a two year relationship. She moved on and re-discovered an old flame and I'm left in the wake, wondering what to do now...
Interests
Running/working out, model airplanes, school, work, my awesome dog who keeps me company when I need it most, family and friends
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Read your profile. Your comment about your thoughts and people not understanding them hit home. We each have such unique feelings, and your are entitled to them. They are NOT abnormal, everyone has them at one time or another. It would be scary if we DIDN'T feel. Those are the abnormal ones, who have no emotions. Take care!
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Kev,i know just how you feel,especialy about the not wanting to be a burden to friends,but here you have found support ,people who know exactly what you are going through,you will have bad days and good days,Remember,on the good days,you will vbe able to draw on your experience and help someone else
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Boy, I could have written your post on unhappiness, loneliness, whining. I want this to go away, the pain to stop..... Well, we are on this site together, sharing stories and support. I send hugs and best wishes to you my friend who feels exactly like I am feeling today. Someday we will all look back on these dark times from a happier position, and we have to look forward to that.... we have the good folks on this site who understand us..... and Karma will justify us in the end..... wish we could fast forward to better days, don't you? best wishes, boyd
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You are not alone. I also felt that way after my divorce. It was a 16 year relationship and the divorce was out of the blue, I didn't even know there were any problems. You need to continue processing what has happened in order to move forward. I ended up taking an antidepressant and found that it really helped. If they are truly your friends, you will never be a burden. Friends are the ones who are still standing next to you when everyone else has left. My father told me that and I have not forgotten it. take it one day at a time and let yourself grieve.
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Hugs to you
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Close Breakups & Divorce
I broke up with my girlfriend of two years a few months ago. We continued to talk and spend time together until I found out through friends that she had gotten back together with her ex-boyfriend. She wants to be friends and wants to see our dog, but I am struggling with the resentment, rejection, and loneliness that I can't help but blame her for. I often feel helpless and utterly alone and I don't know what to do with those feelings. I guess I just need time, but right now it really hurts.
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- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- It helps, but there are still so many times when I'm alone and hurting. And I feel like some of my feelings are so scary and abnormal that I can't tell the people around me about them. And I really feel like that won't even understand.
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