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tomati
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About Me
Been married for almost 10 years now. 3 beautiful children. Very beautiful wife. I love her with every ounce of enery in me.
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HOPE THINGS ARE GOING OK WITH YOUR WIFE. I'M NOT SURE WHY THIS ADMIRAL PERSON GAVE U HUGS WITH THOSE COMMENTS BUT JUST DISREGARD AND STAY FOCUSED. SHE'LL COME AROUND
Flower
Hey Tomati i started to read your Ds profile and stopped in my trackes when i seen that you have been married for 10 yrs and have 3 children. so let me get this right you have though about going outside your marriage for sex after your wife has spent 6 of 3 of 10 yrs preg. and lactating as her inside mended to some degree. for each child, that = 2 yrs each. Then i scaned bk up to your age, thats sooo typical of men. but yet again i find it un- natual to go though difrent phases of our lives w same mate. personally i find it un-natural to submit oneself to another who may leave you when your 45 or 65. But it does my heart good to see men over 60ty with baby starting thier life over by the assistance of his formor wife and his grandchildren baby sisting old man baby,lol. I choise not to marry and i choised not to haveing babys- children. I own my home and car and yatch and my toy doesnt leave the toilet seat up,lol.
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Flower
Hey Tomati's I agree with blooming19 and please put down the toilet seat. Have you though that she may have surpressed memorys that she may not even be aware that she is physically expressing her surpressed memorys? are that she haveing flash thoughts are pcs of dreams based on surpressed memory. And guys woman perfer romance and feeling pretty 24/7 w/o SEX being the pressured topic of duty. And ladys there are prescription meds that can spark us to act. And for any man that feels that he has to go outside his marriage and risk infecting his wife and family because he cant cuddle his woman and masterbate is already on his way to being kicked out of his wife life. And in cause you didnt know pre menopause is like a roller coaster exprss threw alaska and hell and menopause is just that until mama gets her goove back. MEN - O - PAUSE. Either respect all that she had been to you and has done for you and learnt to be affectant w/o intercourse until she ready - will its worth the wait. Some thyp will conduct on ph sessions and i personally would start leave libray books out on such issues as depression and lack of intrest and w/o saying anything other than honey i got a book that i think you might like - leave the book on coffee table are her nightstand are even in the offc - bth rm. Guy thier are male adult toys for men - not woman so the best surgestion that i can give you is get a grip.
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Hang in there. I'm sure she'll come around. Have you talked to her about anything on your thread?
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Good Luck
WISHING U THE BEST...MY HUBBY AND I MADE SOME PROGRESS THIS WEEKEND...SO TRY AND HAVE FAITH
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Close Healthy Sex
For the last year, my wife has been faking being aroused sexually by me. She later told me that I just wasn't getting the job done in bed. We've worked through all those issues and, according to her, sex was getting better. But I noticed that if I didn't initiate intimacy, she wouldn't look for me. The last 2 months, we have hardly been intimate. Now she tells me that she could live without sex. I am very, very frustrated at this point. I am almost to the point of looking for it outside my marriage, which is something I don't want to do.
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