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Wilo (07/07/08)

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Something may be wrong with her that is causing this. Sometimes it is unknown to us until a much later time, then we find out there was some illness or someone talking to her. People often during idle talk where questions get asked and answered end up giving bad advise based on too little information. It's like they take it out of context. All that happens is our loved ones make decisions that hurt us. Each of us needs to listen and take advise with some of our own thoughts and experience so that any decisions we do make are the right ones. Your wife to be on that web site, however, seems odd. If she has never done that before, been so connected to a web site that is for entertainment, then that could be something you cannot control. It's unfortunate. I hope for the best and I will keep you and your whole family in my prayers. But please don't give up hope until you know that you have no other choice. If your wife is just being influenced by someone or something else, then she will need your gentle guidance and support. She will need your strength. Stay in touch. We are here with you and for you. Take care!
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Wilo (07/04/08)

Hope you are okay. You have a great 4th!!!
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Wilo (07/03/08)

My friend Vince - I wish you the best. I hope you are feeling a little better. Be strong and journal everything. It will help you to feel better. Go for a walk alone and listen to music or just think about something in your life that makes you happy. Honest, it does work. Take care.
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Wilo (07/01/08)

My new friend, I am so sorry that you are going through this terrible ordeal. You don't deserve it. I know exactly how you must feel. I know how it is to love someone and have your world as you know it turned up side down. But what you may not know, is that so many of us here are your friend. We know how to care about each other, not matter what is wrong. I can offer you only some of my own experience and thoughts. You have a child, still part of your family, and in many ways, the most important part - your child. When this happened to me, I didn't even have a child. Until this weekend, my daughter would not even talk to me. Even today, she is barely talking. It's a miracle nonetheless just to have her talking to me for whatever the reason. You already know God. He is on your side. He is walking beside you and holding you up. Cry if you need, God understands. Be with family and friends. Do something with your child to help distract you - it does work. I found it incredibly helpful and relieving to write journals on this site as well as letters to my friend. My letters will never be read by my friend, but I write them anyway. It really helps me to get my feelings out in the open. If you feel like you need a friend to talk with, call me if I am not online. My number is 970.481.8246. If I can't answer at the time you call, leave me a message and I will call you back as soon as I can. I know what it is like to hurt. You're not alone.
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Wilo (06/27/08)

You are in my prayers man. I know what you are going through. My friend walked away from me 3 months ago after 12 years of being together. Our relationship was not perfect, but it was next to perfect I thought. She didn't. If you need a friend to talk to, I'm here.