Divorced
July 3, 2008 10:48am
Well I'm divorced. Sorta anticlimatic and what better way to find out it's final than having the ex show me the final decree and ask if …
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About Me
Father of 3 with joint custody. Project Manager overseeing all capital improvement projects (construction and renovations) of a park authority. I suppose you Live and Learn. I'm really into my children, playing ball, hiking and just about anything outdoors. I also enjoy relaxing time, swing in a hammock or just lounging in front of the tube.
Interests
Like sports, both as a spectator and a player. Love the outdoors, like to camp and hike.
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Journal Entry for March 5, 2008
March 5, 2008 7:16pm
Things have been going pretty well lately. Had a great time this past weekend "wiking" as Newlife7 likes to call it. Basically, …
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Journal Entry for February 23, 2008
February 23, 2008 6:49am
Well I finally did it. I finally filed for divorce. I guess I knew for a long time I needed to but it's always easier said than …
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Journal Entry for February 20, 2008
February 20, 2008 2:14pm
Why is it that some people can remain committed to a relationship and do anything to work through it; while others are willing to throw away years in …
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Journal Entry for February 18, 2008
February 18, 2008 1:38pm
Just to let my friends know, for some reason I'm not getting email updates from daily strength. Not sure if anyone else is having this …
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A hug just to see if you are still out there!
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Excuses, Excuses. Sorry we won't see you! Hope you are getting to the beach soon after!
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sounds good to me. Sound like we are all in a bit of a slump!
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Oh my true friend!! How I love you more for being such a true, honest, valued friend!!!!! Thank you Tim for really being the best male friend a woman could have. For being the genuine Nice. For being honest at all times. You have no idea the appreciation I have for our friendship. YOU'RE THE BEST!!!!!!
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Married 15 years, dated for an additional 8 years before that (though not continuous - on again off again) but was engaged for 4 years before our wedding. Basically, she just fell out of love with me. Long story short, I suffer from depression and have only sought help since Jan 2006. I was closing everyone out of my life and she just couldn't take it anymore.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Wife & I went to one meeting and she decided that it just wasn't for her.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- In for depression. It's going well, in addition I'm taking antidepressant medications.
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- My family really isn't that close or we don't communicate our feelings (especially the men).
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- It was good to be among people who could share similar feelings.
Close Depression
Type: Clinical (Major) DepressionHad depression on and off for most of my adult life, but reached a point where I started to put my suicide plan into effect (Dec 2005). I got professional help for the first time in my life in Jan 2006. What pushed me to the edge has been several health issues: inner ear - I'm dizzy all the time, thyroid disease - I feel weak and now BPH - enlarged prostate that makes it difficult to use the restroom. I have 3 children and had a wife (separated June 2006).
Treatments
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Working / Worked
- Went to a two week course. It was interesting and if you use the techniques it is helpful.
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- Personally, this works the best for me.
- Prozac Working / Worked
- Currently taking it. Helps.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Currently in therapy and I attended a two week Outpatient program.
- Wellbutrin Somewhat Helpful
- I've been going up and down in doses with this stuff. I suppose it helps, but makes me feel nervous or jittery.
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