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    About Me

    My name is Stefanie. I'm 23 years old and I've been on one hell of a roller coaster the past 4 years of my life. At this time, my husband and I are in the process of seperating and divorce soon in the future. He was my husband for 4 years and my partner for 8. Other than my few health problems- I am a proud mother to two beautiful, amazing little boys who completely own my heart!!! Rickey is 3 and Kevin is 1 and they are my JOY!! I am in college pursuing my RN degree, I still have a long way to go, because I've had to take breaks due to my health. I plan on working in pediatrics or cardiology. My 2 passions, children, and evenging my father's death by helping people who suffer with heart problems and complications. I volunteer for the American Heart Association and this year I have volunteered at 4 events, 2 of which I did all by myself and I hope I can help to save a life, or save a family from all the heartache and sadness my family has endured from the sad consequences of Heart Disease. It is America's #1 Killer, in BOTH Women and Men and can so easily be Prevented in MOST cases. I strive to make a difference, for my dad, for my kids, family, friends, and also myself. I want to be the voice that is heard and listened to. I want to achieve big things, and one day, when I am better, I will! I love my kids and am so grateful and lucky to be their mother! I have been truly blessed in all aspects of my life! I have been blessed with two beautiful, amazing children and blessed with an awesome, caring, loving family who is there for me always! I thank the Lord for my blessings, and my losses, because they have all made me stronger! Even though there are days where all I do is cry, and miss the people and things I used to have in my life, I am thankful for the days I had with my father, the days I had with my grandmother, and the days I have ahead of me with my children, best friends, and god daughters. I love my family and my friends and am blessed to have them in my life! I have a beautiful network of friends and support, but never as great as the support I get here on DS, because through this site I have found people who suffer from the same illnesses, diseases, and problems I do! I am so thankful I found this site on a google search, it has changed me forever! I am so grateful for the friends I have made here, the advice I have been given, and am glad to have been able to give other's advice as well! I love to help others, and I always have! I grew up wanting to be a teacher, but my goal has changed into being a nurse. That way I can help someone physically, emotionally, mentally and any other way possible! I can't wait for the future and what it brings me! (BTW, I am not always a "happy go lucky" person either, I have my downs just like everybody else! And I hope to get through those times with my friends here on DS who are suffering right along with me! Thank you DS!)

    Interests

    Finishing college, CSI :), Finding out what's really wrong with me.. I love to watch baseball (Atlanta Braves) and College Football (Georgia Bulldogs), spending time with my Kids (Rickey and Kevin 3 and 1 y/o), family, best friends, and my 2 precious God daughters (Alexis and Chloe 6 and 4 y/o), STAYING BUSY SO I DON'T LOSE MY MIND......

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  • Journal

    • I love my son so much

      Mood August 28, 2008 6:51am

      All or most parents truly love their children. Well yesterday, I was rudely awakened of how much I adore my trying child. As he went for evaluations, …

    • "Love? Not so much..." My baby is in trouble...

      Mood August 12, 2008 8:55pm

      So praise the Lord, I am not in love with my best friend. This is so weird, but my mother rents apartments out, she is the landlord. Well, he called …
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    • Jun 30

      Mood July 30, 2008 6:22pm

      Sometimes you know I just think about everything I used to be. Before my family fell apart. I was a straight A honor student, athlete, damn …
    • My Father

      Mood July 29, 2008 6:09pm

      There was once a 17 year old girl who fell head over heals with a man who was 19. They were inseperable. To the world, they were known as one, as …

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      From hydromama3 Yesterday

      I hope you are still feeling good and no more stones because they are no fun.

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      From hydromama3 Saturday

      I hope everything is going good for you.

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      From rita923 Thursday

      hope everything is going good for you

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      From hydromama3 Tuesday

      I hope thing are well with you especially since they removed the stent. Have a good night

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    • Close Kidney Stones

      I have had reoccurent kidney stones for 4 years now and probably more to come. I have my first Lithotripsy July 18th and am very nervous. I just can't wait to be stone and pain free. If that ever happens... :(

      Treatments

      Pain Management Clinic Working / Worked
      It dulls the pain.
      Surgery Working / Worked
      Stent placement hurt like hell, but Lithotripsy was a God send.
    • Close Physical & Emotional Abuse

      It hurts to really talk about it.

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Not Working
      Forgave too many times.
      Leave Working / Worked
      I made him leave a few times... but he always makes his way home.
      Talking Not Working
      Never.. always turns into a battle
    • Open Chronic Pain

      I had a lung procedure done in 2005 that left me with extensive nerve damage inside my chest wall cavity. I also have kidney stones a lot, so that doesn't help with the added pain.

      Treatments

      Cymbalta Working / Worked
      We'll see, just got put on it 7/23/08
      Flexeril Not Working
      I take Soma
      Heat Somewhat Helpful
      Sometimes helps
      Hydrocodone Somewhat Helpful
      Not strong enough most of the time.
      Lidoderm Working / Worked
      Helped when I placed it on the surgery site for a long time. It numbed it, but stopped working after a long while.
      Naproxen Somewhat Helpful
      Helps with inflammation
      Neurontin Too Soon to Tell
      Just started today 7/30/08
      Oxycodone Working / Worked
      Dulls the pain
      Physical Therapy Somewhat Helpful
      Did aquatic therapy for awhile
      Topamax Working / Worked
      Had to stop taking it because it has kidney problem side effects.
    • Open Anxiety

      I have suffered from anxiety since the death of my father, and my health problems beginning in 2004.

      Treatments

      Ativan Not Working
      Doesn't work for me
      Cymbalta Too Soon to Tell
      Just got prescribed 72308
      Klonopin Working / Worked
      Helps with anxiety and sleep
      Lexapro Not Working
      Didn't work
      Prayer Too Soon to Tell
      I always believe in prayer
      Seroquel Working / Worked
      Helps with sleep and moods.
      Trazodone Not Working
      Made me even more psycho
      Xanax Working / Worked
      Works for panic attacks.
      Zoloft Working / Worked
      Worked for awhile, but had to switch meds because I was on it so long and got to highest dosage.
      Wellbutrin Working / Worked
      seems to be helping
    • Open Back Pain

      Pneumothorax surgery 2005

      Treatments

      Carisoprodol Somewhat Helpful
      Relaxes me enough to sleep for a good 6 hours at times
      Heat Somewhat Helpful
      Hydrocodone Somewhat Helpful
      Ibuprofen Somewhat Helpful
      Naproxen Somewhat Helpful
      Physical Therapy Not Working
      Stretching Somewhat Helpful
      Oxycodone Working / Worked
      Dulls the pain
      Prayer Too Soon to Tell
      From my surgery in 2005, I had extensive nerve damage, inflammation and site pain. My back aches and I guess because the lungs touch the back, my upper and some lower back hurts constantly. The meds sometimes help dull the pain.
      Ultram Not Working
    • Open Bipolar Disorder

      I was diagnosed bipolar almost 6 years ago. I have been on and off of meds for years now.

      Treatments

      Ativan Not Working
      Didn't work
      Celexa Not Working
      Didn't work
      Lamictal Working / Worked
      Working fine.
      Seroquel Working / Worked
      Helps with my sleep, too.
      Wellbutrin Working / Worked
      Helping
      Klonopin Working / Worked
      Helps with anxiety
      Xanax Working / Worked
      Helps with breakthrough panic or anxiety
      Cymbalta Too Soon to Tell
      Well see just got put on it today.
    • Open Pregnancy

      Have had 2 kids, think I might have some great ideas for some new moms!

    • Open Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)
      : I support someone who has lost a child to SIDS

      I've never had a baby die to SIDS, but have 2 friends and associates who have. I am going into social work, and I would love to share my findings and feelings and give my support and love to these mothers and fathers who have endured this terrible tradgedy.

    • Open Family Issues

      rickeyandkevinsmomma hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Parenting Toddlers (1-3)

      I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old (turned one June 28, 2008)

      Treatments

      Education (School) Somewhat Helpful
      Patience Working / Worked
    • Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)

      I have a 3 year old going on 30.

      Treatments

      Child Time-out Not Working
      Education (School) Too Soon to Tell
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      Speech Therapy Working / Worked
    • Open Parenting Newborns & Infants (0-1)

      My son is almost one, but I have lots of advice to give, since both my children were very different.

      Treatments

      Breast Feeding Working / Worked
      Worked with my 2nd son for 3 weeks. Then after breast milk had to be put on Similac Alimentum because of a lactose sensitivity. He could also use Enfamil Nutramigen which both cost 27 dollars a can!!!, My older son was 7 weeks premature and had trouble sucking and latching on. He had to be on soy.
      Education (School) Somewhat Helpful
      My older son went to preschool, My youngest stays at home with me since I no longer work because of my health issues
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      Sometimes they get the best of me and I need alone time. Locking myself in the bathroom for 1-2 minutes. LOL
      Research Working / Worked
      I researched everything under the sun when I found out I was becoming a parent.
    • Open Pregnancy - Teens

      I got pregnant at 15, had a miscarriage. I got pregnant at 19, had my first son. Both by the same man, of course. Now we have 2 kids and are married. We got married before my first son was born.

    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      Husband of 4 years & partner of 8 & I have seperated. He has been verbally, emotionally, & mentally abusive the past 3 1/2 years & before that he was VERY psychically abusive. After I got pregnant, he stopped hitting me & started hurting me with words & actions. Part of me wants to truly hate him, & the other part of me just wants to truly forgive & forget him totally. I never want to get back together with him. I am so better off without him.

      Treatments

      Leave Working / Worked
      I made him leave
      Love Working / Worked
      The love of my kids keeps me going! They are truly my angels!!!
      Pets Considering
      I am thinking about getting a dog. We already have a cat.
      Reading Working / Worked
      I love to read, and it keeps me busy when I need it to. When I open a good book, it's hard for me to put it down.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      When they are actually there for me, it helps a lot.
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      DS is awesome! :)
      Time Too Soon to Tell
      I am hoping that time will heal all wounds, and take away all feelings. I do not want to reconcile.
      Clonazepam Working / Worked
      Helps with anxiety and for sleep.
    • Open Financial Challenges

      rickeyandkevinsmomma hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Bereavement
      Type: Loss of a Parent

      I lost my rock, my defender, my backbone, my hero. I lost my Father to heart disease. It happened July 27, 2004 and I was pregnant with my first son. Dad knew he was going to be a grandpa for 22 days before he died. I miss him terribly. :(

      Treatments

      Crying Somewhat Helpful
      I'll always cry.
      Getting Angry Somewhat Helpful
      It helps in the heat of the moment.
      Helping Others Working / Worked
      I volunteer for the American Heart association because my dad died of heart disease.
      Keeping Busy Somewhat Helpful
      Helped a lot right after it happened.
      Reading Somewhat Helpful
      Keeps me busy.
      Remembering Working / Worked
      I love to remember him, even if it makes me cry for awhile. It also makes me smile. He was such a great person!
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      I blog a lot about it and I love to talk about him, and life's experiences without him here on DS.
      Time Working / Worked
      The ONLY thing that truly works for ANY loss.. I'll take that to MY grave!
      Klonopin Working / Worked
      Helps with Anxiety and Sleep.
    • Open Infidelity

      And again, another statistic.

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Working / Worked
    • Open Asthma
      Type: Adult Asthma

      Developed asthma after a nasty pneumonia and pneumothorax in 2005. It is very under control though, haven't had to use a rescue inhaler in over 1 year.

      Treatments

      Advair Working / Worked
      Works great.
      Albuterol Working / Worked
      Works for emergencies. Even though the breathing treatments at the hospital that Albuterol is mixed with something else works a ton better.
      Inhaler Working / Worked
      When I need it.. and I havent needed it in over a year! YAY!
      Pulmicort Working / Worked
      My son has asthma, and uses this daily. It works for him, he has not had an asthma episode since last Winter! Success!
      Singulair Working / Worked
      Take 10mg a day.
    • Open Autism / Autism Spectrum

      My older son, Rickey, is being evaluated for Autism. His pediatrician says it's most likely mild autism or Aspergers Syndrome. Either way, I'm very very scared.

      Treatments

      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Considering
      We will begin as soon as he gets his diagnosis.
      Behavior Management Considering
      We will begin as soon as he gets his diagnosis.
      Early Intervention Considering
      We will begin as soon as he gets his diagnosis.
      Occupational Therapy Considering
      We will begin as soon as he gets his diagnosis.
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      I try so hard.
      Play Therapy Considering
      We will begin as soon as he gets his diagnosis.
      Speech Therapy Working / Worked
      Has helped him tremendously but he still will not speak in complete sentences unless they are small sentences like Whats that? stuff like that. He is still very behind in his speech.. argh....
    • Open Asperger Syndrome

      rickeyandkevinsmomma hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
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