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Thank you. I needed that. Had a rough night last night. It's hard to hear your H tell you that you only get that 'new spark' feeling at the beginning of relationships. I'm assuming referring to his OW. Who knows.
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honey do whats rt for u..the hurt will only get stronger and it will destroy u.
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I’m With You
I could have written this myself. I am in the same situation. My husband says his whore won't give him up. I say BULLS---! He's a big boy and can tell her get lost. He LOVES the attention he's getting from both of us. I'm on my 19th month of hell. My fault at this point but I love the idiot. How? I don't know. He doesn't love anyone but himself and is VERY full of himself. I've been dealing with this OW. Talked to her several times. She doesn't care. My adult children have talked to her. Again, could care less. She, too, won't leave my H alone - again - his fault for continuing contact. Get this - she's married, was cheating with another guy and while she was in the one affair she started the OTHER one with my H. Her BOYFRIEND called my house to 'warn' me about the two of them. So, I'm at the end of my dealing with this. I have given him NO consequences at all and basically let him 'date' her while still here. (the whole cake and eat it too thing) He's in egoland because he has these two women fighting for him. I realize now that I have been wrong, wrong, wrong. SO, I told him that I will give it yet, one more chance. If I find ANY proof that he so much as dialed her phone number, the divorce proceedings begin. I've had my fill. I've lost 19 months of my life and will not lose ONE MORE! Hang in there. This website has helped me immensely. Talk to me. I'm right there with ya!!!!!
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Hank tough girl its a hard rollercoaster of emotions but you will make it through. Everyone here is so helpful, supportive and understanding. Feel free to vent and if you want to talk Im here for you too.
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Close Infidelity
Married 25 years this Xmas. Husband had 3 year affair, my kids found out! He swore it was a mistake and it has been over for the last year. Well I found out he was with her last week, 4 hors. Hes making stories up about why! But he lied through his teeth about where he was when I called him! I am so tired of living with these lies, I physically feel sick every day, I have to take medication otherwise I have anxiety attacks! I desperately need guidance!
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- He lied the whole time, Counsellor4s told me to either accept what he said and let it destroy me or divorce.
- Forgiveness Not Working
- Every time I start to trust him he betrays me! I dont know why he doesnt want a divorce, why is he insisting on hanging on and killing our family?
Close Breakups & Divorce
After nearly 23 years of marriage, I found out that my spouce had been having an affair for nearly 3 years!
Treatments
- Family Therapy Not Working
- He wouldn't admit to anything and kept on seeing her
- Forgiveness Not Working
- I am having anxeity attacks on a daily basis
- Love Considering
- He was the love of my life! Our whole future was planned, where we would go, the trips we would take, what we would do with our Grandkids! Its like erasing out a whole part of your life.
- Hydrocodone Working / Worked
- Taken daily makes you cope so much better! but obviously not a solution!
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