Is she out of her #@!$# mind?!?!
August 6, 2008 6:38pm
I am getting to the point in my relationship with my ex where I can tell her to piss off without wallowing in sorrow for an entire day. she still …
toddsewright’s Profile
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About Me
I am 37 years old, a professional software engineer here in town. I have three children that I cherish more than my own life. I am very physically fit I work out alot because it helps fight off depression.
Interests
I love to spend time with my kids. I loved to spend time with my wife. I love to read, and work out. I have a degree in philosophy, but I don't really persue that interest as much as I used to. I spend alot of time getting my new house the way I want it these days.
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Recent Activity
Monday
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toddsewright gave momof2boyss a Hug 5:15pm
It has been a stressful and painful weekend, but I have gained a measure of closure out of it, that I…
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toddsewright updated their status 3:39pm
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toddsewright changed their mood to OK 3:39pm
Friday
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toddsewright and momof2boyss are now friends 6:27pm
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toddsewright gave MelissaA a Hug 4:35pm
Hey beautiful, just checking in with you to see how things are going. everything Okay in your world?…
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Journal
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Journal Entry for July 30, 2008
July 30, 2008 12:28pm
I went over to my ex's house last night to see my kids and to watch A movie. I don't know what I was thinking. I should not have gone. when …
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Let me ask you a question
July 22, 2008 6:58pm
My ex-wife of 11 years wants to be friends. she acts like nothing has really changed between us when she is around. she jokes and pokes fun and plays …
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maybe she will, maybe she won't
July 9, 2008 12:51pm
I have read in about twelve different places and been told by two very close friends that at about the six month mark, my ex-wife will want to come …
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shattered
July 7, 2008 7:52pm
I am so tired of feeling alone, broken and betrayed. every time I talk to my ex-wife, as soon as I hang up the phone I start crying. how can someone …
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Hugbook
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Flower
Here are flowers sent to you, for a wonderful day tomorrow.
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Hug
I could be better, but I guess ok. Allot of things is in my journals if you want to read them.
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Hug
Hello checking in with you. Hope you had a great weekend. hugsXXXX
Hug
Meh, I guess I am doing better. I am resigned to the fact that my family is dead. That doesn't stop me from trying but I do realize it hopeless now. I spent most of Friday with the wife, several 1-2 hour phone calls the day before. But it's only because her 'bf' was out of town. he got back last night and we haven't spoken since. I don't know why I allow myself to play second runner up. It's ridiculous. I need to take control of my life again. . . How are you coming along? Anything going on with the new woman?
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Hug
I am not so hot. But really trying to be better. I miss having friends there for me. How are you Hottie?
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
I have been married for 11 years. My wife and I have three young children (4,5,7). We Are both professionals and we both have very busy lives. She recently told me that she loves me, but we are so different that we have nothing in common anymore. she feels distant and wants a divorce. she says she just feels overwhelmed and tired all of the time and if we each have custody of the kids every other week, we would both be able to recharge ourselves. I feel shattered and betrayed.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Not Working
- I met with a therapist for five weeks. He was supportive, but otherwise unhelpful. I began to feel like it was a waste of time so I stopped going.
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Snapshot
Recently …
- 5 hugs given
- 8 hugs received
