sonyas77 replied to spark1990’s discussion post Can anyone relate? maybe triggering.. in the Sexual Abuse support group 8:27am
Hi, Sorry for what you experienced. I know what you are going through. The best advice I can give is…
sonyas77 replied to ReniS’s discussion post Thinking my dad hurt me with his friend which i kn in the Sexual Abuse support group 9:46am
Hi, I think this sicko will always deny he did anything because he doesnt want to take responsibility…
sonyas77 replied to dani1268’s discussion post Just don't want to deal. in the Sexual Abuse support group 9:39am
Hi, Im so sorry this happened to you. I know how hard it is to keep such a horrible thing a secret. I…
sonyas77 replied to hellsbaby’s discussion post My uncle! in the Sexual Abuse support group 9:34am
Hi, Im so sorry your uncle did this to you. He sounds like a dangerous, unstable man. It is good that…
sonyas77 replied to wornoutandtired’s discussion post my almost 14 yr old son sexually abused my 7yr old in the Sexual Abuse support group 11:30am
Hi, My heart goes out to you. What a terrible dilemma you are in. Its so awful when abuse is in the family.…
August 20, 2008 7:54am
Im feeling bad this evening. Ive just gone on an elimination diet to try to suss out what is aggravating my IBS. Just before that I came off a low …
August 17, 2008 7:07pm
Im havent been feeling the greatest lately..whats new?lol
Feel so unmotivated and vulnerable and damaged.
Im dropping a subject at school to take some …
August 9, 2008 11:47am
Just has a nightmare so Im up at 1am. Thats what I get for stuffing myself beyond full before going to bed.lol.
Not doing the greatest at the …
August 7, 2008 8:23am
Ive had a couple more sessions with my two therapists. The guy Therapist, Norm has said meditation would do wonders for me. I still havent put time …
July 31, 2008 9:02am
well I had my exam and I think I did ok but I have my 3 assignments to do and I feel so unmotivated.
I had hypnosis the other day and it was a bit of …
good luck with ur healing xx
**HUGS** HOW RU?
thanks for the hug. i am looking into help for the whold family right now.
Just wanted to send along a hug in case you could use one :-)
Yeah, you sound like your putting yourself down too much. You certainly had poor models for behavior from your parents but I think you have to take one day at a time. I try to think of at least 4 topics to discuss with strangers at gatherings and keep it noncontroversal like movies,the news articles, TV,their work, etc.It really helps me and you don't have to stick yourself with one person-surf. Good luck; I hope you have a good time.
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I was abused by my dad between the ages 11-18. I have had ongoing issues since then including depression, anger, low self-esteem, insecurity, isolation etc.
My ex lied to me continuously and cheated on me. It has been about a year since the break up and I am single but I dont know how I am going to trust any future partners. I mean how do you know for sure if a man is lying or cheating on you. I couldnt bear to be hurt in that way again and so for the time being remain single.
I have suffered what has been diagnosed as IBS since I was about 14 years of age. My main symptom is flatulence. I used to have constipation all the time but now that I have increased my fibre I have regularity. I have had stool samples and have an overgrowth of Blastocystis hominis and Dientamoeba fragilis.
I am single at the moment but was in two long term relationships where I was very codependant. I rebounded from one relationship in to the next and despite my recent ex treating me like crap I couldnt leave him because I was too dependant. When he broke it off I felt the greatest sense of loss and panic. I have gradually adjusted to being on my own. I do get a bit lonely (I dont have friends) but I dont have that desperation for someone like before.
