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  From Admiral August 3

  Hey Angelnyemt Where are you staying? in apt thats in his name? can he sublet - as in can he give you a rent recite-s if you where a rm mate who pays oh lets say $100.mo are you staying with your parents while he is serveing our country? if so you could obtain rent recites - oh lets say $100 mo. instead of paying your parents $100.mo in cash will inexchange for cash you work 20hrs per wk house hold cleaning so that you can have a safe place w street address and a place to do your laundry. Sweet Pea, our health and welfare of our children is our #1 prioity I personally would apply for state benifits such as but not limited to: food assistance, medicaid for baby and prenatal care and section 8 houseing assistance and i would also submite application to local health department and request a slideing scale fee - which is based upon your income. You are independant and are not married therefore take care of yourself and your child will being and after dad retires from militaty and if you wish, marry then. Am somewhat surprize that he doesnt know what causes baby to become and that he didnt marry you before he departed so that his child could have military benifits. Intercourse even w protection it is common sence that there is still a possibilty of preg. and responcibiltys. The great thing about internet and web cam and militaty officer and your local court house is that your honey can marry you over the internet. at least then you will have military houseing and care for your baby. Oh ya, whats the diffrence in him paying for prenatal care now are being given state loan for his child care. a state loan that he has to pay back for your and his beby care. Dont you think that it would only be right to repay someone who paid for his baby care. I think thats its alful nice for the state to use working people tax's who have children of thier own to extend medical care and expect to be pd back for those who can not obtain bank loan nor medical insurance for the care and well being of a baby. Again if moveing bk in w my parents to be able to care for myself and my baby then so be it for my goal is section 8 houseing assistance - perferable on public transportation - bus route and yep i would shop at Salvation army store to get items needed for house and yep i would go to Salvation Army Offc and request a clothing voucher- to obtain clothering that i would need to get me thur 9 mo's. Congradulation you are an independant single mother. Dont rely on others to make choises for you. you know what you need to do for yourself and your baby. I selceted a devorced man who already had a son. I raise 2 wonderful step sons. I knew that on my own i could not maintain social life and have things that i want and raise a child by my self even w child support and i knew that only my husband & i would be in bed together therefor it is not my neighbours nor cashier nor waitress job to support my child. Having said that i must also say that due to mental illness iam on food assistance after having worked 30 yrs and after raiseing 2 sons, divorce and rebuilding my life drained my funds but aw there taxs i pd in so i obtained food assistance. will get busy submitting state assistance applications.

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  From ShelbyS July 15

  Sooo, how are things?

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  From shtiya July 10

  You're a volunteer EMT who works as a meat wrapper in a grocery store? Sorry, I just thought that was kind of humorous. :)

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  From shtiya July 10

  I didn't mean to sound bossy or make you mad when I responded to your post about telling your parents. Congratulations! Your life is about to make a huge change! :)

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  From Jay4 July 10

  Well done with the big brave announcement!!! I lived with my parents until I got married at 26 and understand how you could be nervous about telling them. I was always worried about the 'disappointed' look I'd get if I became pg before I was married. They just care about you and want the best for you. If your dad is being a little stubborn, he has another 8 months to get his head round it. Give him time x

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