stepdadnomore’s Profile

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Couples Counseling Not Working

Well, when I found out my wife didn't want to be with me anymore, she just dumped me. I had counseling appointments set up last November. She cancelled them and made excuses. She said later on in March that she wouldn't go until I go. If that was the case, why didn't she tell me and let me know that? She doesn't communicate very well and when she does, its when it doesn't matter or hold water.

Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful

I forgive her for what has been done. I believe in my heart that she is sick, as I am too. She needed to get out of this relationship. I am glad that she did. It was toxic and I was in denial of the pain that was being caused. So thanks!

Leave Somewhat Helpful

My wife has moved away since I was in Hawaii for the first 45 days of the separation. It has helped that she moved as I don't know where she went to. I guess I could try to find her, but that isn't going to solve my healing

Love Too Soon to Tell

My love for her is gone. The only lingering thing I have for my STBX is the things she said to me....those things still pop up from time to time.

Music Somewhat Helpful

I listen to my Ipod to help distract my attention when I feel lonely. I am in Hawaii and my buddy that is letting me stay here is at work and I am all alone for hours at a time. So I use my Ipod to help me cope.

Psychotherapy Too Soon to Tell

Well, I finished my third session with my counselor. Nothing really doing right now. All she seems to be doing is listening to my life right now. So well see how this goes.

Reading Somewhat Helpful

I am reading a book on Self esteem right now. I will be getting several books on Love addiction. Don't want to mess up my next relationship with the mistakes I made before

Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful

My family and friends are the best. I feel very happy to have them support me and hammer me when I do something wrong.

Support Groups Too Soon to Tell

I am in a divorce care class at my church. It helps, but its only 2 hours a week and its tough when I am not there. It nice to know that others are in the same boat or even worse spot than me. I know that sounds bad, but sometimes you think the worst of yourself when they are others out there to.

Talking Working / Worked

Keep talking about it gets it to the point that I am tired of reliving the issue. I been talking about this issue for almost three months now. I am tired and want to move on...ARGH..Monday is my new deadline to stop talking about her and work on me.

Time Somewhat Helpful

Time was my enemy in the begining. I cannot believe its only been 100+ days since the breakup. I feel great now, but I wouldn't want to be in my shoes back then...YUCK!

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