iluv2besilly2’s Profile

Close Bereavement

Treatments

Crying Working / Worked

I'm not afraid to cry when I need to and it has helped me in many ways but yet at times I feel like the crying never stops

Getting Angry Working / Worked

When necessary, I do get angry but unfortunately not always the right way. I take my anger out on the ones we love. I am still working on trying to work on my anger in a different way.

Helping Others Working / Worked

I love to work with the elderly, children and the VETS. I love to share my time, knowledge and experience with people who need the help.

Keeping Busy Working / Worked

I have/had many hobbies but I get easily distracted when I try to sit and do the things I am interested in.

Music Working / Worked

I love music and it makes me feel better when I listen to good songs that has made a difference in my life. Sometimes its hard to hear songs that remind me of my husband and when we would do things but its ok.

Pets Working / Worked

I have two cats and two dogs and two fish. The animals have kept good company for me and they keep me busy.

Reading Working / Worked

I read allot of magazines in my spare time and love to read about life after death and grieving books.

Remembering Working / Worked

My husband worked for the post office and was in the Army so I have done allot of travel with both affiliates and commemorating has made things easier for me to move along and knowing that I have shared my story with thousands of people has made a difference.

Scrapbooking Working / Worked

I was doing allot of scrapbooking before my husband died but haven't managed to have the time or energy to pull it out and try again.

Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked

They are the best support system anyone can have.

Talking Working / Worked

I love to talk but it takes a good listener to be a talker.

Time Working / Worked

Time........they say it cures all but I don't think that is true. Fore me, it feels just like yesterday when the Chaplin and the Major were at my front door but yet I can't believe it has been four years. I take one sec, one hour and one day at a time.

Close Parenting Big Kids (5-8)

Widow, my husband died in Iraq and raising a 6yr old son. He was only 2 when his dad died. Trying my best to raise him but very difficult at times.