Just existing with wonderful memories
June 12, 2008 10:08pm
Wished it were otherwise ---- I'm finding it difficult to make the many adjustments that become necessary when ones life is shattered …
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Promiles’s Profile
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Promiles
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About Me
Am retired. Very people oriented. Enjoy travel and travel regularly to Florida but am feeling the loss of my best friend and feel that a support group may help during what to me is the most diffult period of my life.
Interests
Travel, Swimming Reading
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Recent Activity
Today
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Promiles replied to Dasiyday’s discussion post If he can't come back, how can I go where he is? in the Bereavement support group 12:51pm
I think when you lose the love of your life,it is totally devastating. The motivation and enjoyment we…
Tuesday
June 28
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Promiles gave eileenR an I'm with you 10:01am
Hoping lots of good things will happen in the next week that will make you feel better about yourself…
June 27
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Promiles commented on eileenR’s journal entry I am Done!!!!! 7:55pm
Don't know how to interpret things Eileen as it seemed as though you and your sister-in-law had such…
June 26
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Promiles gave eileenR a Hug 1:47pm
A HUG for you Eileen...added a little advice on your journal ...hope it helps Bryan…
June 24
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Promiles commented on eileenR’s journal entry prayers answered 5:12pm
Just happy to know you're home Eileen. Make sure you get lots of rest and do everything you can to reduce…
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Promiles commented on eileenR’s journal entry prayers answered 5:12pm
Just happy to know you're home Eileen. Make sure you get lots of rest and do everything you can to reduce…
June 23
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Promiles gave eileenR a Hug 6:07pm
A special Hug and prsyer for you Eileen hoping that you're feeling a lot better. God bless Bryan…
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Promiles gave eileenR a Hug 7:33am
So sorry your weekend wasn't good...appreciate your prayers and advice(which I'm trying to follow). Hope…
June 22
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Promiles replied to christineurbanJOHN’s discussion post trouble sleeping? in the Bereavement support group 1:47pm
I think most people who are suffering from grief have some problems sleeping. I tend to try to stay away…
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Hugbook
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Good Luck
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I am sending you this hug because I think your special
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Bryan, just stopped by to say hello and to tell you that today is going to be a better day. praying for many blessings to come your way. Thanks for everything. HUGS HUGS HUGS
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I’m With You
hugs for us to get through it all
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hope all is well with you
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Support Groups
Close Bereavement
: Loss of a Partner/SpouseI'm totally devasted by the loss of my closest friend Carlleen who passed away as a result of a blood clot on her lung on April 9th. Carlleen was the love of my life and I was so so fortunate to have her as the love of my life for the past 10 years or so. Carlleen was the most giving and caring person I have ever met. She was and always will be someone who loved life and had an incredible sense of humour. She worked as an X Ray Tech and I have so much respect for Hospital workers who are so dedicated in caring for others. Carlleen dealt with life and death situations every day and contributed so much to others. I'm like a lost soul without her as what happened was so totally unexpected at her 51 years of age. I know Carly would not want me to grieve as much as I am but it is so difficult to handle life without the love of my life. I think losing a parent is really difficult but to lose the person closest to you is even more devasting. Am trying to keep myself busy counselling Carly's son whom I regard as a stepson. I'm really fortunate to have some great friends but I really find the time I spend on my own to be the most difficult. I drove 1000 miles to Memphis to visit my son a week or so ago alone. I found the drive vety difficult without my best friend. Would be interested in discussing my situation with others who are dealing with a similar type of grief.
Close Widows & Widowers
Lost my partner of over 10 years on April 9th . We did everything together and life was so much fun.I belong to the Bereavement Group but this Group identifies closely with those who are going thru the same loss of our loved one. Hopefully talking to others who are sharing the same experience will help in the recovery process. My partner Carly passed away at 51 from 2 blood clots on her lungs..I miss her so much.
Treatments
- Grief Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- Have attended two sessions with 24 others who have suffered a loss, mostly their wife/husband or partner Would recommend support groups to anyone as it really helps to talk to others who are going thru the same experiece.
