loss of family
May 18, 2008 5:34pm
I would love to express one true feeling at the moment but the truth is, I am not sure how I do feel. I don't know if I have surpressed my …
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I am a Mother of 2 and 2 grandchildren. I have lost 1 son in death and the other by his choice. This is why I need daily strength. The later loss has been greater than the first if that seems possible. Sincerely, gillanne
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walking, reading, decorating.
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July 16
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gillanne commented on dj54’s photo/video 7:05pm
Alaska has to be a dream place to go. I am sure the "bear" wanted to take U home with him.....U r a…
July 12
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gillanne gave dj54 Flowers 4:34pm
dj, Thank U so much for the encouraging words, U do make sense....I so agree that I do need to get on…
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gillanne turned 65 12:00am
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I’m With You
Just wanted to let you know I know how you feel. I have been living for years without a relationship with my sons due to their father and his family blaming me for everything that happened so long ago. It still is a very deep wound and salt gets dumped in it from time to time. I just stop and remember the Serenity prayer and change my minds direction, so I can go on with MY LIFE and do the things I need and want to do for myself. Maybe you too need to stop living YOUR life for others, instead live it for YOURSELF and they may want to be part of it with you. Gotta find a healthy balance. Take are of yourself. Deb
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Just wanted to send you a big hug and let you know that you are loved. Have a blessed day in God. Love Debbie
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Close Family Issues
I am a Mother of 2 sons. Lost 1 in death and the other, along with his family by their choosings. I am devestated, to say the least. I have NO hope nor answers for this situation.
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a ChildI have 2 sons, I lost one in death, suicide. The other is living but may as well be dead. He and his family (except for his young son) has nothing to do with my husband and I. It breaks my heart and at times I can hardly deal with the rejection. No cards on Mother's day, no gifts at Xmas. He told my husband, his father, this is how he wants it. 90% of the time I feel like someone has walked on my heart. How do I continue to keep a sound mind. Would nerve pills help?
Treatments
- Crying Somewhat Helpful
- only works at the moment
- Getting Angry Not Working
- Only feel guilty later.
- Keeping Busy Somewhat Helpful
- have trouble getting moviated.
- Prayer Somewhat Helpful
- Yes, it does help. I just have a differcult time praying.
- Support Groups Considering
- would love to find a good support group.
Open Bereavement - Teens
I have 2 sons, one died and the other may as well be dead from the way he distance himself from us. It is more hurtful then loosing the one in death.
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