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bjk06
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About Me
I am a 39 year old single mother of a 15 and 17 year old. I have been seperated/divorced going on 2 1/2 years. For the most part I am happyily divorced. My divorce from a 17 year marriage has taught me alot about myself. I am alot strong than I ever thought I was. I did not realize how unhappy I truely was and how much of myself I had hidden. However, it has left me very lonely and at times wondering why I can't seem to find/keep a good loving man and why I define myself by being in a relationship and why I feel that I need a man. Most days I do real good but, for some reason I keep rehashing the past and wondering why my cheating ex (who could not be faithful or never wanted to be married or live with a women) is now living with his last affair...I am the one who always wanted a marriage, why does he walk away and end up with what I always wanted and can't find?
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Close Depression
: Seasonal Affective DisorderI am spending less time depressed as time goes on. I have days where I am down and can't pick myself up.
Close Breakups & Divorce
I was married for 17 years to a man who thought the grass was greener on the other side. He lied and cheated most of our marriage. I always forgave him, well really I just put up with it. I stuffed my unhappiness. For 15th anver. we decided to get married by the church, the night before he had his last affair. I found out a week later. "The usual he said he would stop seeing her, he didn't. I kicked him out and filled for divorce. For the most part I am happier.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- Went to counseling with 2 different people. I thought it worked somewhat but, he really wasn't into trying to make it work.
- Forgiveness Not Working
- I have tried to forgive him. Can't no matter how hard I try
- Pets Working / Worked
- My dog is my god send(after my kids of course).
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- Helps but, I feel like I am a burden to many people. Feel like they get tired of me.
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