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  sld1 (07/28/08)

  I hope you're have a good night. So many hugs coming your way. You are a very strong woman. You have come a long way.
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  bugged (07/28/08)

  Sending a big hug your way!! Hang in there is all I can say - I've been on this damn ride for 13 months - I have more good days now than bad - but I still tear up, I still cry - you have to remember - they are not the men we married - those men are lost - they have changed into people we don't know or if we're honest with ourselves - would we want to know them now? I'm at work and I just popped in for a moment, I quickly read your post - but wanted to send you a big hug - I'm thinking of you = hang in there - we will get thru this and as cliched as it shounds - we will be stronger and better - because our morals and standard's didn't change we still have those and we are great mom's we will do what we have to do.
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  Holli (07/28/08)

  AMEN!! big hugs!!!
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  bugged (07/27/08)

  Big hug sent your way - the hardest thing to do, yes they keep coming in this divorce/separation crap - is to let go all expectations you have of the man you married. I know exactly how you feel. Mine was a great provider, a great husband and a gread dad - that has all changed - now he is simply a moron! I have to put my house up for sale - he stopped paying the mortgage this month - so I need to sell it before it forecloses - he's gone so my son and my family is helping me get it ready to view - I am learning not to expect anything from him - he's walked away and I mean walked away from all resposnibility - after 21 years that is truly the harest thing to get over - but it is what it is. When I have no expectations of him - the hurt stops a little bit more. Hang in there - you are doing great - you will do what you have to do to maintain thing sin the house - because as mom's and women that's what we do - hang in there.
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  LIzardQueen (07/26/08)

  I know it's rough, but I am glad that you are here. It WILL get better!
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  njmel7 (07/26/08)

  That's true. Maybe I'll end up like Michaelangelo's David. Oh wait, that was marble....
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  mjoan (07/26/08)

  We made it thru another week and we will continue to get better and better !
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  pemdcat (07/26/08)

  Thank you for caring, and its great to be back getting stronger every day. Here in the appartment I can relax and concentrate on getting well.... Hope all is OK for you. I know you are growing into a strong woman yourself....sad it had to be this way but you will come out the winner....Thanks again......AJJ
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  pemdcat (07/24/08)

  Thak you for your caring, I will take it easy and let thing come to me. I am so much more relaxed here no petty bickering and mouthiness. Yes stbx did help move, but I think it was out of being nosey, wanting to see where and what I was living in. All I have left to move is my tools and grill. Thanks again CB......AJJ
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  njmel7 (07/19/08)

  Oh God, sometimes I really feel like that too...like a block of clay. That's it...just a block of clay. A lump. I'm hoping like hell it will get better. It's got to, right?

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