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fatallove
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About Me
Mother of 3 young children. I was with my husband for 21 years when he decided he wanted a different lifestyle and left. His new lifestyle includes another woman I suspect may have been an influencing factor in his decision to leave. We are currently separated with divorce pending.
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fatallove and Chrissy614 are now friends 1:55pm
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June 28
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fatallove changed their mood to OK 10:13am
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fatallove replied to kristi425’s discussion post Curtain Rods in the Infidelity support group 4:34am
That is hilarious! I might have to try that. I am in our house right now but if that changes...…
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fatallove gave Missiann a Hug 4:07am
Thanks for thinking of me, you made me smile!…
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fatallove commented on Chrissy614’s journal entry Cheating is not always the reason 4:06am
Good point. I unfortunately have to deal with a OW and believe me, it wouldn't be easier. It's a very…
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fatallove commented on Chrissy614’s journal entry A different approach 3:57am
I wish you luck!! I think you have a good plan and I hope it works out for you both!…
June 27
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I just read your story, I'm sure you just scratched to surface of it. My heart is breaking for you, I hope you find more joy than pain soon. Just keep breathing.
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Hang in there, the night is always darkest just before the dawn.
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thank you for the heads up! big hugs!!!
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How are you? I am here if you want to cuss, yell, scream or just talk
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Relating to your situation. My STBX, after 25 yrs of marriage went for a new life and left me and my 2 wonderful daughters (ages 10 and 12). He is so focused on his new life and the OW he doesnt see what he is doing to the kids.
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Married 22 years to a man I would have given my life for. 9 months ago he unexpectedly left. I was 3 months pregnant with his 3rd child. He denies it but there is another woman, originally a friend of mine. I was completely unaware that he was not happy in the marriage although now he says he hasn't been happy for the past 10 years or more. He has made and done cruel things since he left and I'm reeling. I'm totally devastated and trying to find a way to get through the day.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Too Soon to Tell
- Personal therapy once a week. Doesn't seem to be helping.
- Reading Not Working
- Immediately after husband left, I went on an obsessive reading binge about divorce, reconciliation, affairs, moving on... i was looking for answers that weren't in any books. Still have the books but can't even read them anymore without having a panic attack.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Worked, but I feel like a burden to them
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- Was admitted to psych facility for a couple of weeks and then went into and intensive outpatient therapy program. It probably saved my life but I'm no longer in the program and still dealing with even harder issues.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Talking with friends, family and therapists. Sometimes makes me feel better and sometimes worse.
- Time Not Working
- Time is meaningless to me now
- Plendil Somewhat Helpful
- Battling depression and am on lots of medications which are somewhat helpful
Close Infidelity
Together with H 21 years. Last year he started becoming a little too close with a married friend of mine. They were having an emotional affair. Finally gave him ultimatum, her or me and the kids (we had 2 and I was preg with 3rd). He chose her. Divorce pending.
Treatments
- Leave Not Working
- Husband moved out. It's been hell!
Open Migraine Headaches
Migraines started in early 20s infrequent at that time, got pregnant and they came every day for months! Again after pregnancy I would have them in clusters, nothing for awhile and then several for several days.
Treatments
- Aspirin Working / Worked
- hardly
- Caffeine Working / Worked
- only worked with mild ones caught early
- Excedrin Working / Worked
- mildly
- Imitrex Working / Worked
- Injections.. not fun but worked. Side effect of face burning lasted a few minutes and was gone,
- Midrin Working / Worked
- tried
- Naproxen Working / Worked
- ineffective
- Relpax Working / Worked
- worked for mild migraines
- Topamax Working / Worked
- tried
- Tylenol Working / Worked
- nothing
- Zomig Working / Worked
- tried
- Promethazine Working / Worked
- Phenergan takes the nausea away and helps me fall asleep.
Open Depression
Type: Clinical (Major) DepressionDepressed for about 10 years. Recent situational depression with pending divorce.
Treatments
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Working / Worked
- helped a lot
- Effexor Working / Worked
- just started, okay so far
- Meditation Working / Worked
- works well
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- sometimes
- Prozac Working / Worked
- On it for years, never felt like it did anything
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- in therapy now too early to tell if working or not
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Definitely working
- Trazodone Working / Worked
- boost evects of some meds and helps with insomnia
- Wellbutrin Working / Worked
- okay
- Writing Working / Worked
- helps
Open Anxiety
Husband left me while I was pregnant with his 3rd child. Anxiety started then
Treatments
- Ativan Working / Worked
- mildly
- Breathing Exercises Working / Worked
- sometimes
- Breathwork Working / Worked
- sometimes
- BuSpar Working / Worked
- okay
- Meditation Working / Worked
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- sometimes
Open Codependency
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