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Friday, July 25, 2008 | A General Update story

Ok, I have to take a break from the wedding stuff for a minute. I know I have almost a year but so much has to go into planning this. I want it to be perfect for Greg and I. So far I think I am ahad and off to a good start. I have my dress witch is so beautiful and I knew the second I put it on it was the right one. We are trying to stay tradional with tons of romance. We are two romantic souls. Greg is comming in August instead of October which is great. I can't wait until we are finally togetther. Greg also has an interveiw lined up for a job when he gets here. So we know in our hearts this is so meant to be. There is no way this could be wrong. NO DOUBT AT ALL!!!! The way everything is falling into place for us. It is crazy we are like OMG. Yet we couldn't be happier.It is what we both have wanted for so long. So anyways. The church is booked along with manor where our reception will be. My only problems are with my mother go figure and my matron og honor. So I need you guys to tell me what you think. My matron of honor didnt like the dress I picked for her. She wants GLAM GLAM GLAM.. I said to Greg it's like she wants to try to look better than me. Which by the way ain't gonna happen. She wants long and sexy with sequins and like she's a freaking supermodel. Now she is hinting to me that her brat daughter is upset because she's not in the bridal party and can't ride in the limo..

That's right she can't. Greg's daughter is the only flower girl I want. Guess what she told me well you can have more than one.. HELL NO!!!!!! You would have to understand her daughter is a real brat. I love kids but I hate spoiled misarable rotton kids. Her daughter has to have everything that everyone else has. Once I had them over for memorial day. I made a spread fit for kings. But I wasn't ready to serve it yet> I was letting people have a chance to arrive. She made such a stink that she was hungry and she wanted to eat NOW!!!! that they left and took her to Burger king because I said it would be about fifteen more minutes. They came back and she was eating her burger king in front of Aaron. So of course he started asking why he didn't have burger king. I told him quitely becuase your not a snot and mommy's food is better than anything at burger king. Then when i started to bring out the food. Aaron got all excited because I made a red,white,and blue jello mold. to go with everything else I made. She then started about how she wanted jello and was still hungry. I wanted to throw her into the pool.. So that might give a little idea what i'm facing. I just want this to be for Greg and I. Our day Our start to Our life together as husband and wife.. So I'm turning to you my friends... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hey Gina, gimmee the name and phone number of the moh, I'll straighten her out right quick for ya. there's no need for her to be a beeyatch except it seems that it comes quite natural to her. But I'll be glad to give her the word of the day for ya!

Now stop worrying and be happy for a change, OK?

stevemoon
Gina, quess we like the same kind of friends? Can you find another maid of honor? Then talk to your friend up front and tell her what you think of her demands. She should be thinking of you and what makes you happy!!! I would talk to her about her kids behavior too. What nerve of your friend to come back to the pinic after she took her child out for burger king!! YOU and family do not need people like that in your life, cause I think your are GREAT, as tony the tiger would say, bet you do not remember that comerical, stevemoom would, lol HUGS

deb2003
CALM down!! the journey will happen as is meant to be, to help your journey, your friend needs to be dealt with on your terms. HUGS

deb2003
Hunny, you and Greg will have a beautiful wedding and you need to be up front and forward with your friend. Tell her its your wedding and if she doesn't want to be apart of it then you can find another person to do it. You are took good of a person to let this stress you out. I will keep you in my thoughts and Im so glad to hear that Greg is coming home earlier. God Bless you both.

JesAngel29
Agh, sorry, yellow is difficult for me to read. From what I can see though, relax, breath and take things one step at a time. If you have not already, get an accordian file and use that to sort everything you have to work with. Music, catering, wedding location, reseption location, etc. When my wife and I were planning, we just took it one step at a time and when something got finished, just put the final paper in the file and crossed off the section tab. I hope it works for you if you choose to use that idea. At any rate, congrats on getting engaged/married. I am behind the times on who is doing what, so congrats! Hope your wedding is everything you want it to be. It is a special moment. :)

firebat
SO umm....from reaing the other peoples posts, it sounds like the main of honor did something or said something really mean to ya. (again, yellow is hard for me to read, sorry). Remember that this is YOUR day, if someone doesn't like something that you do....tell them to shush up cause it doesn't matter what they think cause it's your day. We had to tell a few people that, and once they saw the wedding, they agreed they were wrong. It's what You want, it's what your Fiancee wants, not what the distant cousin of a twice removed uncle who stepfathered a niece of a neighbor who lived across the street from your childhood house five years after you moved wants. (Went for a joke, hope it worked). If people are not willing to let you have your day, then they are not worth having at Your wedding.

firebat
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FORALL THE SUPPORT. SORRY TO FIREBAT FOR THE YELLOW FONT. DIDN'T MEAN TO STRAIN THE OLD EYES. I'VE DECIDED TO TAKE ALL OF YOUR ADVICE. I AM NOT REALLY INCLUDING HER IN ANY OF MY DICISION MAKING. I TOLD HER THAT IT'S MY WEDDING AND I'M TIRED OF THE DRAMA I GET EVERYTIME I TELL SOMEONE MY INTENTIONS. WELL LET'S JUST SAY IT DIDN'T GO OVER VERY WELL. SHE GOT PISSED OFF DIDN'T TALK TO ME FOR TWO DAYS. I TALKED TO HER YESTERDAY THOUGH THERE WAS NO TALK OF THE WEDDING OR DRESSES. SO THANKS AGAIN TO ALL OF YOU. YOU ARE REALLY THE BEST FRIENDS A GIRL COULD ASK FOR..

ONESHOTGINA