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    About Me

    I am somewhat quiet, reserved at times. I like to make people laugh when I can, brighten someone's day. Probably wear my heart on my sleeve too much. Probably day-dream too much, have too many dreams, hopes but whenever someone has told me I couldn't do something, I became more determined and so far have done whatever it was I had set out to do. Love self-improvement, can never improve enough. Love learning new things and asking lots of questions. My biggest goal in life is to always be here for my kids and help them attain their goals and dreams. :)

    Interests

    Love the outdoors, water, sunshine, swimming, boating, camping. I also love cooking. My kids are the most important thing in my life. Like meeting new people, talking, learning about them. Like to feel I can help others if they need it. Work at home full-time, not lots of interaction with others. Like to dance, love music. Love lying out in the sun around my pool. Like to read. Love to go for walks, sit on the beach, like to bike ride but do not have one currently! Like unique, out of the way restaurants. Sounds hokey, but love sunrises, sunsets, the sound of crickets at night and seagulls.

  • Recent Activity

    August 8

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    • Tesla replied to their discussion post Women!! in the Breakups & Divorce support group 6:53pm

      As a caveat to this...I pay our health insurance through my job and I borrowed money from my 403B to…  
    • Tesla replied to their discussion post Women!! in the Breakups & Divorce support group 6:40pm

      You guys are making me feel horrible for looking in his wallet..and as I said, I don't like it, and I…  
  • Journal

    • Another Saturday night, and I ain't got nobody......

      Mood April 12, 2008 9:22pm

      Do you think, just maybe, when he just came out to go use the bathroom, that maybe he could have came out and said hi, what are you doing, what's …
    • Chewing tobacco

      Mood April 12, 2008 9:09pm

      YUCH!!!  I have decided that on Monday, I am going to send my husband

      ANOTHER e-mail and tell him how disgusting this habit is and I am tired of …

    • Old song!

      Mood April 12, 2008 8:53pm

      "Another Saturday night, and I ain't got nobdody,  I got some money cause I just got paid. How I wish I had someone to talk to, …

    • :(

      Mood April 10, 2008 1:34pm

      I am back to hating him today, and I have been trying SO hard not to.  It is such a struggle to feel like I am acting every day and forcing …
    • Journal Entry for March 30, 2008

      Mood March 30, 2008 8:19am

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      From gjm Tuesday

      Hope things are well.. Have a great day! G

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      From dragonflydazd August 9

      hey, i'm ok. still on holidays but going home tomorrow. its been a good week but way to fast. i could use another one away from all the bullshit that stresses me out but oh well atleast this year was enjoyable and i am still sober. i will fill you in more when i get home. i hope all is well with you and cant wait to hear whats been going on in your world. talk soon.

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      From dragonflydazd August 1

      hey i hope all is well. my life is in turmoil as usual. i will write soon. i'm so sad. take care g/f and let me know how you are. i miss talking. later

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      From gjm July 22

      Seen you was online and thought I would send you a hug. Hope everything is going well. G

    • I’m With You

      From weinere46 July 10

      Dear Tesla, What is a human being without dreams? I am the king of doing things that they say I CAN'T! Read my jounals for more insight for why I feel this way if your interested. Either way, never give up your dreams, they are what make us humans!

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  • Goals

    Goal Completed on Mar 29, 08
    Goal Completed on Mar 29, 08
  • Support Groups

    • Close Alcoholism

      I have abused alcohol off and on for five years as an escape from reality. It only made my reality worse, though, by magnifying it. Time to face up to reality.

      Treatments

      Cold Turkey Working / Worked
    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      I am not divorced or even separated but have thought about doing both due to the on-line affairs my husband had over a year ago. I still struggle with the hurt of that today. Why does everything have to be so hard?!

      Treatments

      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      Time Not Working
    • Open Infidelity

      I am coming up on two years this June when I found out my husband was having on-line affairs with several women. It was very extensive, letting them call and talk to him on his phone at work, telling me he was working late at the office to be able to stay and chat, sending pictures back and forth and extensive daily e-mails and on-line chatting including very sexual content. He also snuck and did this at home while I wasn't paying attention to what he was doing. I can't get over this.

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