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Having been trying for a baby now for over a year I have had my good days and bad days. Yesterday was a bad day which is why I looked up a forum to look for others going through the same thing. I recently had a tube check and the doctor said that my tubes are clear and also my husband has had prostetitus. I was hanging all my hope on this being the time after my husband being treated and maybe the tube check would make a difference somehow. I now feel certain that I am not pregnant again although I don't have my period yet and am feeling really disheartened. I keep saying why me? But also I suppose why not me! I feel I have had such a great life and live such a great life and I really don't want this to overshadow it but sometimes it is hard. Especially when so many of my friends are pregnant or have had babies recently. This morning I felt a moment of inspiration when the song 'It's my life' by Bon Jovi was playing on my ipod! the line, 'it's my life, it's now or never, I ain't going to live forever. I just want to live while i'm alive' really made me think. I have a great life and I want to live it not dwell on this one thing and allow it to become me. I hope someone finds solice in this.
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I feel the same way. Your words are comforting. I find that knowing I am alone in this journey helps so much. I too ask why not me? All my friends have had children and my best friend just found out she is having her 2nd child. Her 1st is only 7 months. It is hard but I know God has a plan for me. I wish you well.
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