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Doubting Myself
Thursday, May 15, 2008

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   No, no, no your not responsible for an "A" if thats what is happening thats all on her!!!!!!!
   Sure we all have issues in our marriages which we each are responsible for and responsible to work out together but if one person goes outside it then that is on them and them alone.
   My wife was in a fog, she bought into everything the SOB fed her for years. I dont think I will ever understand how one could do such a thing to their spouse but I did gain an understanding of how our problems opened the door to allow it to happen. It was not until after she was caught and she actually saw me start packing things up, and take down all our family photos and see me break down puking constantly and sure I'll admit it even crying like a baby before she could see how she was destroying our family.
   Her being malicious sounds about normal to what many have gone throuh here. Its her putting the blame on you for what she is doing. Thats unfortunatly very common. Not to get you down but the road is going to get even worse as you go right now. But it can get better. I know its hard but YOU NEED TO STAY STRONG FOR YOURSELF right now....

   
   

   LT2

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   LT2 is right you need to stay strong for yourself right now. It is not your fault she chose to have an affair, and she chose to go outside your marriage instead of fixing it. Sometimes people need to lose something or someone to appreciate what they had or have. Hang in there you can get through this as tough as it seems right now. Hugs

   
   

   Silverstix

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