is feeling OK
Newly unattached male, father of a soon to be three year old boy who is the light of my life. Right now, I am just overwhelmed with so much stress it is unbelievable. Seeking coping mechanisms and hoping so hard for that day I awake and notice the lack of that wounded heartache feeling.
May 12, 2008 4:35pm
Welcome to great america. Ride the whizzer, up and down, and spin around.
Talk of sorry in the air, but can I ever accept that? …
May 9, 2008 12:53pm
Once again, awaken to the hollow, empty chest.
Crap. I was hoping the not so bad time would last.
Maybe though, its not …
May 9, 2008 3:28am
I have been so depressed for the last couple days, just aching. I am at work, (only a few more nights to go, then new job and days!!! YES) and …
May 8, 2008 7:45pm
This is so ridiculous. I am so freaking depressed about her leaving me, but its too late to do anything about it. If she called right now …
May 8, 2008 3:10am
When confronted about the cheating she made it clear that I was emotionally unavailable, didn't show affection and had promised to take care of …
Hi. Just wondered how you were. And wondered if you ever told the OM's wife? I'm still going through my hell. Hope you're better! HUGS!!!
HUGS to u, u will be ok...i have a 3 yr olf girl and am seperated from hubby...let me know if u ever need to talk
know so well how u are feeling . there are no words to tell of the pain. life seems full of the abused and the abusers. if you're unlucky you are onr of the abused. sue x
I hope somehow, even in the midst of this pain, you have at least one good thing every day.
I am sorry for your pain, but I do understand it. You have to do what you feel is right but I would let her know what is going on. I would not do this out of anger but because I am glad that someone informed me of what my husband was doing. I feel like when people are cheating they are taking away the freedom of the person who does not know what is going on. If she knows what is going on and chooses to be with her husband that is totally her choice, but to be in the dark and thinking you have a good man when you do not is just terrible.
I'm a single male who recently found my live in fiance and mother of my son having an affair. She left me, to be with her 25 year older married lover. Intellectually I realize it isn't me that was rejected, she has emotional issues and is simply repeating a life pattern. In my heart, however, I feel devastated with the loss of her and my son. I just need to cope day to day, and learn to live my new life.
About a month ago I discovered my fiance and son's mother has been cheating with a man 24 years older than her, that she had introduced me to as her friend of 20 years and father figure. I became suspicious and read sickening emails that confirmed he had groomed her like an online predator. I am devastated, part pride, part jealousy, part ego, but mostly I love her and miss the person I thought I knew.
