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  hurston (10/09/08)

  Thank you I really need help getting through this.
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  hurston (09/28/08)

  Thank you so much. :)
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  brokenheartbob (09/25/08)

  hope you have a good day
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  james021011976 (09/21/08)

  Heya, how are you doing?
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  TrevorJames (09/20/08)

  Trying to break codependency is very hard. I wish you all the best! We are all here for you.
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  alice805 (09/20/08)

  thank you very much :O)
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  TrevorJames (09/20/08)

  That is the hard part -- understanding that you can be ok by yourself. You can be. You will be fine. It takes time and everyone heals in their own time. I can suggest what I do to everyone else... find the things that make you happy and do them. Heal yourself. Excercise is the best thing you can do for a worried mine. Endorphines are by far the best medicine. Write journals here at DS, until your fingers bleed. I study, talk or chat with friends, play guitar, write, and sing. That is how I get my confidence up and feel good about me. Those are all positive aspects of me that I know I am good at. I write all the time and I will record my own piece of music. All I need is a mixing board, a mic, and a mic stand. I would love to play for people, but I don't know where to go for an open-mic. I am sure there is something that you are good at that makes you happy, and is something you can do by yourself.
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  VacuumBag (09/20/08)

  http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakup...
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  VacuumBag (09/20/08)

  I'm being sincere. In the past few months I've had a cute girl approach me and put her number directly in my phone and when I called her she didn't want to talk or hang out because she had a boyfriend. And then I met another girl and we had coffee and went out one weekend and everywhere we went she was being hassled by another ex... and each time she would just shut down and I would have to coach her out of her funk. And then last night this girl I had a slight crush and rapport with since last weekend hooked back up with her verbally abusive ex-boyfriend. There are other examples, but those are the highlights.
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  TrevorJames (09/20/08)

  They just care about you. My friends didn't do that, because my ex left me for another man and I was destroyed. She had herself all setup and told me nothing. Like I said, I tried dating the first time and I was not ready to give my all. Now I am. It has only been four months, since I was with someone. Nothing has exploded yet. :) Just keep focusing on your healing and you will be great. However, like I said, if an opportunity comes along, don't dismiss it. Just be honest with him... tell him you are still hurting. If he is worth your time, he will be fine with it and ask to be your friend. I wish I would of done that with a woman I dated last Winter. I would probably be with her now. She was amazing. I so wished I would of kissed her, but the divorce wasn't final yet, so I was in an awkward place. Live and learn. If you ever need to chat, let me know.

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