naive1966’s Profile
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Today
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naive1966 replied to morejoy’s request for advice about To Tell or Not To Tell? in the Infidelity support group 11:23am
Of course the cheater always prefers that no one knows. It's shameful and people will judge no matter…
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naive1966 replied to gjones’s request for advice about HOW DOES ANYONE GET PAST in the Infidelity support group 11:14am
I still cry every day and it will be a year in August. It's hard. There's no way around it. If your H…
Thursday
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naive1966 replied to chrissy3228’s discussion post "I'm Sorry" in the Infidelity support group 2:57pm
He's being heartless if he plans on still having "friendships" with women outside of your relationaship.…
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naive1966 replied to KrisStew’s discussion post Help with moving on... in the Infidelity support group 1:11pm
I agree. If he's already moved out DO NOT make yourself available. Let him be with the 26 year old dumbass…
Wednesday
Tuesday
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naive1966 replied to amithatstupid’s discussion post How Old was HE When HE Cheated? in the Infidelity support group 7:44pm
He was 45 years old can anybody spell M-I-D-L-I-F-E- C-R-I-S-I-S ???????…
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naive1966 replied to morejoy’s discussion post More advice - Friend wanted in the Infidelity support group 5:47pm
that's text you each day NOT test... God we've been tested enough :)…
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naive1966 replied to morejoy’s discussion post More advice - Friend wanted in the Infidelity support group 5:44pm
It makes perfect sense at least you know you're normal. When you really think about what you are seeking,…
Monday
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naive1966 commented on tweedsie’s journal entry I'm staying married and happy about it! 9:54pm
Congratulations!!!! I couldn't be happier for you both. Thanks for making me smile and giving hope to…
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Thank you for the hug today I really needed it !
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You're the best as well!
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you speak the truth on that one...lol.
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hey naive its your fellow mass. buddy hopefully we can talk sat nite talk to you later
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Thanks! I'm so impressed with myself! I hope this feeling lasts!! We sure do learn alot going through all this!! It feels so good for him to hear me sounding good, and here I thought he deserved to hear me miserable. Gotta do some harm to his ego thinking I'm moving on so quickly. It's just too painful to keep hoping. How great would it be if I can hurt him back if he decides he wants me back and he's too late!!
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Close Breakups & Divorce
My husband of 18 years had a 4 month affair with a female coworker he became friends with. He regrets it. He has apologized profusely. He says he loves his family. I would love to talk to someone in similar situation. I loved this man very much. I can not trust him. Hate him most days. I do not want to disrupt my children's lives. I wish to get strategies for sticking out 2-3 years yntil youngest is at least in the middle of high school.
Close Infidelity
42 year old female. Husband had a four month affair from 3/07 - 8/07. Says he's sorry and so on. Loves me and the kids. I loved him very much but no longer have any respect for him. I have debated leaving but do not want to hurt my 2 kids. I'm thinking of trying to stick it out for a couple of more years since my youngest is only 12.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Too Soon to Tell
- We have a great therapist. I just have a very strong will but am for the first time in my life very confused and scared about my future.
- Forgiveness Not Working
- I could use help with this. How do people do this.. forgive betrayal.
