jennmp's Journal

well, well, well.....

i haven't been able to write fore weeks now b/c my computer got zap-fried in a storm we had.

but, a friend of mine was nice enough to let me use her computer to sign in and check things out. well, most of the crazy w/ my sis has been settled; she is no longer with "that guy" as she puts it.....i can't say that i am dissapointed though b/c he showed his true colors when he couldn't  handle something like unexpected pregnancy. not that it is something to worry about anymore........(read past journal entries).

Now, about claudia.

she is doing GREAT!

she just came back from two weeks at camp and the only damage was her nose......she doesn't  open her eyes under water and, well, scrapped the crap out of her nose whe she hit the bottom.

it looks better now....we have been putting neosporin on it. Now she is home for a couple of weeks....claud is also almost 11 years old....the 24th....MAN!!! time flies.

now on to new biz.

a verry good friend of mine is going through a had time; she just ended a 10 year relationship(not married)....but still, a good chunk of her life. she is moving into a small two bedroom place around the corner from me. the problem is, her now ex is verry unstable it seems and i am a little worried for her and her son (the father is the ex) and i don't have any sound advice to give her.

I mean, i have no advice other than make sure windows and doors are locked at night and don't give him any reason to get his hackles up. as far as i know he was never phisically abusive but verbally is just as bad in my view of things.

He does things like drive by the house,send her horrible scathing text msgs and swear and call her names in front of their son. (i.e. 'you whore, you dirty slut, psycho bitch'....etc.) and untill friday he seriously thought that all this was going to blow over and they were going to get back together. I just don't know what to tell her for there is way to much messed up shit that he is doing.....things i can't even begin to describe....

she has been told by the police that there is nothing that can be done by them untill he actually harms her......which i believe to be the biggest pile of bull shit ever....should not have to wait till he tries to kill her and run off with the kid before anything can be done; Yes, i do think things could go that way. He has already tried to make a false report to the police and i have been told that she should be able to get a protective order against him baised on that...but i am not sure.

All i know for sure is that i am going to continue to be a good friend and have told her that if things get really weird to go right to the police....DO NOT HESITATE!!!

it's all i have for advice.

ok gonna go now.....write again soon.

Jen