Trouble getting the words out of my head
July 3, 2008 9:34am
The clock is ticking away. August 18th is quickly approaching and I have a lot of work to do still before then. I cannot get this business charter …
Wilo’s Profile
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Wilo
is feeling OK
Fixing the yard
About Me
I like to help people and to make them smile. I love to joke around and I love having friends. I am a brain tumor patient 30 years this year. I have some hearing loss and vision loss as a result of my tumors, but things are stable.
Interests
Solving problems, automating things that are boring. Taking pictures of people and mostly the beach. I love the beach. Some politics, some history of military. Law, medicine. Having friends. Making movies and music. Listening to Journey, Tim McGraw, David Allen Coe. Many more. My cat Bootsie. The beach (just look at my web page!)
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Recent Activity
Today
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Wilo gave doggielovergirl a Hug 2:41pm
Thank you for the Friend story. You are a very good friend and I happy to know you!…
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Wilo gave kimmers34 a Hug 1:13am
The 4th is no drawing to a close. I hope this holiday is good to you. No matter what burdens you, remember…
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Wilo gave rebelfem a Hug 1:09am
Welcome! I would be happy to be your friend.I know what it is like to lose hope. But I also know what…
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Wilo gave AWOYENI Flowers 1:04am
I hope you had a wonderful 4th, that you got to see some fireworks - you and the kids! I will talk to…
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Yesterday
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Wilo replied to rebelfem’s discussion post blackouts getting worse again and so in the Brain / CNS Tumors support group 1:37am
You need to find a neurologist. A better one than your GP. Those headaches and missing time are serious…
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Wilo gave Vince7475 a Hug 1:10am
Hope you are okay. You have a great 4th!!!…
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Wilo gave doggielovergirl a Hug 1:08am
Happy 4th of July!!!…
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Wilo gave AWOYENI a Hug 1:06am
Hello my dear friend, you have a wonderful 4th!!…
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Wilo gave Czarna Flowers 1:06am
Hope you are doing okay and I wish you the best 4th of July! Have some fun.…
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Journal
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Confused in paradise
July 2, 2008 12:21am
My friend, it was nice seeing you tonight. I was oddly in a bad mood afterwards. It had nothing to do with you, but something triggered this feeling. …
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Warm day, warm feelings
June 30, 2008 8:48am
My friend, how could we spend a day like yesterday and not call it love? We dug up the old rose bushes and shopped and planted new ones. We stopped …
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An unexpected call made my day for as small as it was
June 29, 2008 12:23am
I had an appointment with my friend today. We were going to work on her yard, something we agreed to do last week. I got to her house but she did not …
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Today is what I cannot change
June 28, 2008 12:34pm
Today is the first day of the rest of my life. Today is the first day of change. While I have so much to change, to make better, there are so many …
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Hugbook
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Thanks for the message. Have a great weekend. Hugs
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Hugs to you, I am sitting pool side enjoying the beauting day.
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I hope you had a Happy Fourth and that your weekend is just spectacular! Thank you so much for being such a wonderful friend! Hugs, Patti
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Thank you will give him a try
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Have a great 4th my friend!
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
I was in what i thought was a beautiful relationship for the last 12 years. And then a month ago, I made a remark that I deeply regret now. Since that time my girlfriend has not talked to me. She won't answer my calls, email, or the door. I was blind sided by this sudden turn in our relationship. I won't say I was perfect, but I love my friend and cherish her deeply and would never do anything intentionally to hurt her in any way. We have had other problems like everyone else.
Treatments
- Forgiveness Not Working
- I am a forgiving person, but it's now out of my hands. I am waiting and hoping that I have not lost my friend.
- Love Not Working
- There is no communication right now. No response from my friend. All of a sudden I don't exist.
- Reading Somewhat Helpful
- At least to help me understand, I read through Lost Love. It has some great insight, but I can't make it work without my friend.
- Time Too Soon to Tell
- It's already been a month with no word. I honestly hope that time is all that my friend needs to wade through the confusion and hurt that i caused.
Close Brain / CNS Tumors
Type: MeningiomaI am a very experienced person of Meningiomas and the aggressive treatment and living with them. I am a success story.
Treatments
- Chemotherapy Working / Worked
- I have been on a chemotherapy drug for 10 years now, and it appears to be working.
- Gamma Knife Working / Worked
- Not real sure whether this treatment worked or not, but I like to think it did. I am a survivor.
- Surgery, Brain Working / Worked
- I have had invasive surgery twice and liked this the least because of what it did to me. But I am still okay. The surgery worked but it has some risks and complications.
Open Hearing Loss & Deafness
Type: Sensorineural (Mild)My friend (maybe former) has a profound hearing loss. But now I am slowly losing my hearing because of tumors on my auditory nerves.
Treatments
- Sign Language Working / Worked
- I learned sign language so that I could communicate with my friend. I love the language. Now I use it to sing to you ...
