The English Major In Me
July 9, 2008 4:52pm
"When We Two Are Parted"Lord Byron
When we two partedIn silence and tears,Half broken-hearted,To sever for years,Pale grew thy …
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If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed. -Sylvia Plath
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About Me
I was married for 9 years, but our relationship lasted 14 years. He chose to leave me, I did not want a divorce. I just relocated to NC to begin a new life.
Interests
Coen brothers, Judd Apatow flicks, die hard fan of The Office (US version), reading, keeping up on current events, celebrity gossip, baking, classic rock, concerts that make you get out of your seat!
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no, no sad music these days, can't take it~~~
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Hey, quotes from Sylvia Plath? I'm scared for your mental health!!
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Good for you! Glad your job is going well. Grr...my pool is driving me nuts this year! I was the pool person, so it doesn't normally bother me. But my filter keeps malfunctioning! But I'm kind of bummed today, bc just found out my stbx will be moving to Orange County, Ca after China. Boob city. great.
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I've lived on both coasts.... CA is so breathtaking, but SC/NC is so breath-giving...
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ps beaufort sc not nc, although I like nc too, it's all pirate-y and good for walking about the little town on the water, but to sit in the sand, beaufort sc is it...
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Together for 14 years, married for 9. Husband's father dies, husband has mid-life crisis at age 36, we do marriage counseling, he files for divorce 5 months after my father-in-law's death. I am blindsided. Just recently confirmed that infidelity was an issue as well. I struggle with that daily.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- Like a quote I read, "Counseling begins the road to divorce."
- Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
- Many years away from this! Must try to forgive infidelity. Will be hard.
- Leave Working / Worked
- Got the hell outta dodge! Moved clear across the country from him. Plan on never talking or seeing him again!
- Love Not Working
- Did I fail at this? Can I ever do this again?
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- I am so grateful for my friend taking me in!
- Time Somewhat Helpful
- I guess I am in a different place now than I was 7 mos. ago.
Close Infidelity
Always trust your intuition. I had a feeling that he was getting involved with his co-worker. Strange things were going on, even made his own parents say "what's up with that?" He denied it, saying that she was new in town and did not have any friends. After divorce was final, I found on her facebook that they are together. Did he wait until the divorce was final before really sealing the deal? I will never know.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- Even therapist thought he was overstepping boundaries.
- Divorce Working / Worked
- Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
- Will be a long hard road to get there.
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