I dated my wife for 5 years before we were married. We would have been married 6 years this summer. We had built a foundation of trust and openness. Then, my world turned upside down about 2 months ago when I found out my wife had an affair. It was a complete surprise to me since, we were in the process of adopting a child. Each day feels like a roller coaster. Work is my saving grace for me right now. My weekends can't end fast enough. I just want the divorce process to fast forward, so I can start again.