I totally understand. I feel the same way about my son, Matt. He was the one that helped me fix things and stood beside me. Now he's gone. It seems like some of my strength died with them.
I feel your pain. To me it is like having a big whole in my life.
I am so sorry for your loss and I understand what you are feeling.
Please feel free to message me if you want to talk.
Susan
I feel the same way, Milla. Some things Bob did were not a big issue, like taking out the trash for example. I don't think I took out the trash more than 10 times in 25 years. It's not that it's a problem, it's that he ALWAYS did that, and even on a good day, it makes me lonely for him more when I do it.
I've known several widows in my life, including my Mother and my Grandmother.... I just never dreamed that being a widow was such a blow to every single thought in your head, every separate thing you do or don't do, and that it completely robs you of any real joy in life.
Feel the same way. Miss my soumate so dearly. He was always there to help me in what ever capacity I needed him. Even if it was just for moral support, I could count on him. Now not so sure. Really do miss my Baby. Never thought I would be w/o him. My sweet Love. We will get through this, I am sure one day at a time though!
I totally understand. I feel the same way about my son, Matt. He was the one that helped me fix things and stood beside me. Now he's gone. It seems like some of my strength died with them.
I feel your pain. To me it is like having a big whole in my life.
I am so sorry for your loss and I understand what you are feeling.
Please feel free to message me if you want to talk.
Susan
sushi12
I feel the same way, Milla. Some things Bob did were not a big issue, like taking out the trash for example. I don't think I took out the trash more than 10 times in 25 years. It's not that it's a problem, it's that he ALWAYS did that, and even on a good day, it makes me lonely for him more when I do it.
I've known several widows in my life, including my Mother and my Grandmother.... I just never dreamed that being a widow was such a blow to every single thought in your head, every separate thing you do or don't do, and that it completely robs you of any real joy in life.
Sending you hugs, my friend.
Jan
jd1982
Feel the same way. Miss my soumate so dearly. He was always there to help me in what ever capacity I needed him. Even if it was just for moral support, I could count on him. Now not so sure. Really do miss my Baby. Never thought I would be w/o him. My sweet Love. We will get through this, I am sure one day at a time though!
bigbammer