holding pattern.
July 1, 2008 1:36pm
We are in a holding pattern. Life is too busy for us to think about things. I guess that is a good thing. We just got back from …
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halfagood wrote a journal entry: holding pattern. 1:36pm
We are in a holding pattern. Life is too busy for us to think about things. I guess that is a good thing.…
June 26
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halfagood replied to wearegood’s discussion post Did you believe your marriage was good? in the Infidelity support group 11:29am
Yes, see my post under the roles we play.…
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halfagood wrote a discussion post in the Infidelity support group: The roles we play 11:28am
Here's what's bugging me today. I recognize that we all play different roles in our lives. As a teacher,…
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halfagood replied to blsofsteel’s discussion post Used a keylogger, very useful. in the Infidelity support group 11:17am
Do any of you know how to detect a key logger? I mean to find out if one has been installed on your computer?…
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halfagood replied to wearegood’s discussion post Did you believe your marriage was good? in the Infidelity support group 11:07am
I too thought we had a good marriage. Heres the thing. She has two personalities. Wife-Mother and Hot…
June 25
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halfagood replied to blsofsteel’s discussion post Used a keylogger, very useful. in the Infidelity support group 9:56pm
I use one too. It has been very enlightening.…
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halfagood replied to jason008’s discussion post I'm a tool for the world in the Infidelity support group 9:54pm
I read your post. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am in a situation where I don't have…
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halfagood replied to their discussion post It this a deal breaker? in the Infidelity support group 3:06pm
This is just what her best friend told me. She is going to say that she needs some time alone or she…
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halfagood wrote a discussion post in the Infidelity support group: It this a deal breaker? 2:37pm
We are planning to go visit my family next week. My wife has told a friend of hers that she is not planning…
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halfagood replied to hurtnangry1’s discussion post coworkers in the Infidelity support group 2:27pm
This is what gets me. The cheaters have all the advantages in these matters. If more people would stand…
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A break through
June 25, 2008 1:52pm
Last night I called to see how thing were going. As usual she could not talk for yelling at the kids. I read CarolAnne's post about …
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She called
June 24, 2008 9:38pm
She called, they were very busy with activities. The solitude is nice. I continue to enjoy it. I have thought a lot about her and …
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June 24
June 24, 2008 3:08pm
No news is not necessarily good news. My wife has taken the kids on a mini vacation. They rented a cabin on a lake about 45 minutes from …
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Ha Ha
June 23, 2008 10:55pm
Just called from camp. Wants me to drive 90 minutes, round trip to get middle child. Middle child (age 5) is having a temper tantrum because he did …
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Sorry it's a difficult time, right now;I just wish I had answers. If I yelled what was in my heart.. it would be "run ,forrest, run". But, my heart is not (always) wise. Find your heart, find your spirit and (most of all), find love. If it's not there, then your marriage isn't there. If it is, fight the demon that keeps pulling you away...........-kat
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I've been emotionally really off so I have not been on DS, but I went back and read some of your posts today. Your W sounds like my H. He will be in a good mood then he will step out to run errands and come back very distant. I know he was speaking with the OW. But he has to decide what he is going to do. I told him not to tell me if I want to leave it's up to me. It's up to him what he wants to leave. I'm not leaving my kids and I'm not telling them, he can if he wants to. Since then, he has been trying more at home and I don't see as much running out and doing errands (w/ Cell in hand to call her). He doesn't run to the computer or sneak on the computer at night. He is not texting at all in my presence. So he is making efforts. But I'm know he is in touch with her still. I'll give it time because of the kids and I have invested now 22 plus years with him. Doctors say it takes a few years. It's tough going through those years. Hang it in there. You seem very strong and able. You are right, the solitude is nice. I have found I've liked it when he is gone golfing and thinking, I can do this if he leaves. But I fall back on my worries of the kids and their emotional well being. If we can remain friends while we figure things out, I'd rather stay. This will have to be your call on what you feel you can tolerate. But I think you should hang in there. You seem to have patience. Wishing you strength to hang on, peace in your heart and mind and love for moving forward. (((HUGS)))
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I read one of your responses and your wife sounds like my H. He is still in contact with the OW. He doesn't think I know but I'm not an idiot. I don't get a cheater's mentality. At all. Hang in there.
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Close Infidelity
My wife is cheating with at least two guys there are two other possible cheats and I am sure that there are those of which I know nothing.
Close Breakups & Divorce
My wife is a cheater. Although we are "working on" our marriage, I suspect she is planning to move. I found an application for housing this morning. When I asked her about, she said that she was investigating it and that she thinks she needs some time alone.
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- We are going separately. It is working for me but I am not sure about her. I suspect that he has not told her Dr everything.
