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I am 35 and getting divorced.I only found out about 3 days ago that my marriage was ending for good and that the "friend" he had was much more than that. I'm sick every second of every day over this. Don't know how to pull myself out of this hole.
May 17, 2008 12:38pm
Well it's now Saturday. I've struggled since Wednesday night. I went to church and felt better. He called me late Thursday night. Telling me …
May 14, 2008 5:01pm
Monday and Tuesday were bad. I had lunch with stbx on Tuesday. She called twice. He didn't answer the first time, but a few minutes later she …
May 11, 2008 5:22pm
Went to a new church today. Feeling pretty good. Spent time with my sisters and my father after. I've decided that I am leaving this whole thing …
May 10, 2008 1:54pm
Thought I was doing fine. Got a call from my niece last night that they were going to the movies and did I want to join them. So I did. Went to see …
May 9, 2008 5:14pm
So I haven't talked to him since Wednesday afternoon. However, I did text him Wednesday night that I missed my friend but that's it. Nothing …
how have you been? do you still come on the site?
Babe I don't know you, and you don't know me. what I do know you will find the strength and further more you will find happiness after all you found it once so its easier to find a second time. I know!!
How are you doing on this holiday weekend?
I understand the hurt you are feeling. I divorced my husband of 17 years about a year ago. It was the hardest thing I ever did. It has been a long road but, I am glad I am traveling it without him.I have my good days and have been having alot of bad days lately. I have found great comfort in reading the book the secret and in quotes as well as my friends. As time passes my anger towards my ex does not last as long. As hard as it seems keep smiling.....
I know how you feel, I am trying leave it up to the man upstairs to. It is very hard, some days are worse than others. My stbx left the home the other day and it hurts, but if it helps in the long run what is a year or two to be apart. Would I rather be in misery for a few years or my whole life. That is not what God intended for my life to live. I know one of the blessings he has given me is all the support from my friends, family and co-workers. They are sticking by me so much and keeping my spirits up and being so positive. They tell me I do it for them all the time and want to help others that are going through the same tough times. It is easier to understand one another what they are going through when the other person is going through it and sometimes you need that objective point of view.
I am separated and until last night I had hopes of getting back together. I had to sit there last night with the "other woman" and listen to my husband talk about how they dated and how he feels about her. She apparently doesn't feel the same and he is devastated. I am devastated. I feel like I can't get hold of my emotions. It's affecting my work. I really don't know how to let this go and make myself feel better. I am so betrayed and hurt and bitter and angry.And still in love with my husband.
