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    About Me

    I work for in the office of a natural gas company that drills wells. I have two kids. Destini is 9 and Matt is almost 6. Destini has ADHD. I am almost one year out of a 8 year abusive relationship and in addition to quitting smoking I am eating healthier and losing weight!!

    Interests

    Reading, outdoors activities, organizing.. (Its so much fun!!)

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  • Journal

    • Onederland!

      Mood May 21, 2008 10:01am

      So Sunday I officially did it.  I reached 198 lbs. I am so excited that I finally got to where I wanted to go.  I still need to lose 48 lbs …
    • Journal Entry for May 12, 2008

      Mood May 12, 2008 11:36am

      So I lost a pound last week.  I want to be frustrated but I'm still happy with that.  201 is a good number.  3 more pounds and I …
    • New week.. new drama

      Mood May 6, 2008 1:36pm

      So... I weighed in yesterday and was down two more lbs.  Whew.... 3 more lbs and I will officially be at 199.  Its exciting and …

    • Journal Entry for May 5, 2008

      Mood May 5, 2008 1:03pm

    • Whats up..

      Mood April 28, 2008 10:08am

      So I weighed in yesterday and I'm down another 3 lbs.  Losing weight so far is the easiest thing I have had to do.

       

      Destini seems to be …

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  • Goals

    Progress

    25 %

    Goal End Date is Jan 1, 09 161 more days.
    Current Weight (Lbs)
    198
  • Support Groups

    • Close Physical & Emotional Abuse

      I was with my abusive ex, Mike, for 8 years. He was both physically and emotionally abusive. We have been officially separted and living apart 1 year in June. After the split I was wishy washy and kept seeing him. In December of 07 he broke in my house and I had to say enough is enough and press charges. He spent 3 1/2 months in jail and just got out at the begining of April. It has been a long, hard road but I am learning to be independent... FINALLY!

      Treatments

      Abuse Counseling Working / Worked
      Saw a counseler for a while at the domestic violence shelter I was in.
      Leave Working / Worked
      I left while he was working 3rd shift. I packed my car and drove my kids and I to a shelter an hour away. It was about the 5th time I have left him but we have been apart one year in JUNE of 08!!!
      Talking Working / Worked
      Just venting to friends and family
    • Close Diets & Weight Maintenance

      When I was a teen I was about 160 lbs. (My normal weight range for my height is 150). I gained 30 lbs when I got pregnant with my daughter and another 25 with my son. I never lost any of it. I started at 235 and am currently at 206 and refuse to give up this time.. every week gets me closer to where I plan to go!!!

      Treatments

      Counting Calories Working / Worked
      This hasn't been bad so far
      Eating Healthier Foods Working / Worked
      I love it! Eating healthy and drinking water makes me feel great!
      Eat Less Working / Worked
      Working well
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      Really helps you feel better !
    • Open ADHD / ADD

      My 9 year old daughter had problems in school from kindergarten!! She couldn't sit still, couldn't focus on her work.. it was a constant uphill battle. Last year she was diagnosed with ADHD and put on meds. Since the meds I have seen a complete turn around with school.. she loves it and is doing great!!!

      Treatments

      Adderall Working / Worked
      She is on 30 mgs a day of adderall. The only side effects I have noticed is she sometimes snorts when she breathes (will discuss with doc at meeting today) and pulling out her hair. We are working on that one.
      Concerta Not Working
      She got up to 50 mgs on this one and it made no difference whatsoever. She is now off this and only on adderall.
      Research Working / Worked
      I have kept up to date as much as possible on the latest adhd treatments ect. out there
    • Open Infidelity

      My abusive ex cheated on me both online and off the entire time we were together. I always forgave him because, although he didn't know WHY he did it, he was always sooo sorry. He broke me down to the point that I just couldn't take it anymore and began to wonder what was wrong with me!

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Not Working
      I wouldn't recommend this. I believe if you forgive.. you teach them they can get away with it.. at least thats how it was in my case
      Leave Working / Worked
      I ended it. Enough was enough. He probally cheated on me 30 times in the 8 years we were together!
    • Open Single Parenting

      I am a single parent to my two children. Matthew will be 6 in July and Destini is 9 years old. I left an abusive relationship and have been parenting alone for almost a year.

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