You tell me because I don't want to feel I am bias because it was against me but my mother has a family plan. It is my father, my brother, my sis in law, and her on it. She has a spare phone that works and is attached to the plan also so she lets me use it. Well my wife says I depend on her....and I was using the phone for a while. Well she hid it from me and did not tell me. Then lead me to believe it was lost when I mentioned it. Isn't this something you do to a child? Then today I brought it with me and she calls it saying I need to stop using it and complaining at me again. Is she trying to be controlling or is it just me? Not to mention when I go down to my parents who live 2 houses away she times me and will call me there if I take longer then she thinks is necessary and then turns around and only "allows" me to go down there 1 time a week if that!
Oh my friend - you are right - she is very controlling - this is not good for you. Yes that is what you do to a child. No it is not you at all - it is very controlling behavior. She doesn't get to time you when you go somewhere. Sooner or later you're going to get very angry about this - and blow up at her. You are a person - she does not get to control you, how you think, when you see your parents - whose phone you use. That is nonsense. I'm sending you a hug - or message - you are right to question this.
LindaJean