time wll tell
May 16, 2008 4:46pm
Planning on telling both of my parents the whole story about my baby, when i return to my country in a lil over a month, i have until then to decide …
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About Me
"Miscarriage grief is a unique kind of suffering, mourning not memories of the past, but dreams of the future."
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To be the best I can be, learn who I am, and how to cope with life. Some days are better than others, thats why I love tomorrows.
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Ahora estoy mejor
May 16, 2008 4:44pm
Doing much better, smile for real everyday things are finally at peace with my baby and a close friend... able to handle each day effectivly!!!!
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April 19, 2008 7:40pm
its too hard... i cant get over it... im not a strong enough person.
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Goal Update
April 17, 2008 10:37am
Starting to feel happier, havent felt really really bad in a few days, learning new ways to cope and i started medatating every day again, that helps …
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April 17, 2008 10:29am
So I have talked with several people in this support group and I have been doing a lot of thinking as too why I cut and how I feel before and after. …
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good luck with sharing with your parents. I am here if you need me
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Thanks for the support. Did you read the letter. My family read it and everyone cried...I don't think they realized just how much I was hurting. Anyways Thanks!!
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Letting you know I understand and feel for you. Sending you big hugs.
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Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you.
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I just wanted to tell you that I used to be a cutter...but I haven't cut in about four years. I had to be hospitalized for my depression and self-injury and was on medication and in therapy for a long time. So, I can really understand where you are coming from. One thing that did help me is really intense excercise. It was painful and left me too tired to be really tense or anxious. I just wanted to let you know that there was someone out there who faced some of your struggles but has been able to move on and live a healthy life...
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Close Miscarriage
i had a miscarriage almost two years ago, and i can't seem to move on. i cry all the time and kids are still an extremly sore subject, it has come between me and all my relationships with family, friends, and my boyfriend. i want to be normal again...
Treatments
- Grief Counseling Considering
Close Self-Injury
I started cutting when I was in 7th grade, just because some of my friends were, and later I began to depend on it. I need to stop, and my boyfriend threatens to leave if I don't... I can't loose him but I can't resist the urges. I don't cut often maybe once a week or once every two weeks. But I want to find a another way.
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- Red Marker Not Working
- I dont cut myself to see blood, I only do it or the pain, so this treatment did nothing to help subside the effects.
- Rubber Bands Not Working
- it was too reaidly availble and it made the temptation to strong.
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