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    About Me

    I am 53 years old, my divorce was final back in May I live with our 2 adult children, both daughters, or i should say they live with me...I work full time, and am learning to enjoy life again!!

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    gardening , pets traveling, movies,

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    Sunday

    • al3131 gave Chrissy614 a Hug 10:02pm

      Hi Chrisey, I know your life is in knots and so is every part of you, while your sit on the fence ask…  

    October 3

    • al3131 gave tibi a Hug 10:17am

      well honestly if that is what the money is from then, I probably wouldsign too, I take it, that it is…  
    • al3131 gave tibi a Hug 12:39am

      tibi, just a word of caution, be very careful if you sign that check, if you do not really understand…  

    October 1

    • al3131 gave computerbob1 a Hug 8:41am

      hey Bob, thanks for the flowers!!! you have a great fall!!!…  
    • al3131 gave tamisue a Hug 8:40am

      hey tamisue, goodto hear from you!! ibought a couple of mums.. haven't planted them tho... have a gr4eat…  
  • Journal

    • Journal Entry for August 14, 2008

      Mood August 14, 2008 7:39am

      Well I haven't written here in a  while.. so that is a good sign... life must be happening...but the latest news is the co I work for has …
    • A new day

      Mood May 25, 2008 7:29pm

      Well it is a new day and a new time and a new life... the divorce is final.. and there is nothing but the future to look forward too.. i am starting …
    • Journal Entry for May 6, 2008

      Mood May 6, 2008 2:41pm

      Its been a while since I have been here.. I feel numb today.. I wish the divorce would be over, maybe then I will take that deep breath,  trying …
    • Journal Entry for April 10, 2008

      Mood April 10, 2008 8:29am

      Well new day.. and the sun is shinning I will count that as a blessing.. wish I had slept more last night..another middle of the night.. can't …
    • good

      Mood April 8, 2008 12:59pm

      Well this afternoon should be good.. my friend David is  coming over and we are going to window shop.. I am trying to keep as busy as possible.. …

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      From Chrissy614 Sunday

      I don't know to all of the above. It's a wait and see situation, but Dawn actually put it best when she asked me if he acts like he wants to reconcile and the answer to that is no. So, I'm just going to wait and see what his friend Mike has to say and then take it from there. I think I'll know more after that. If he's still going through with the divorce then I'm going to push him to get it started. I'm going to see a mediator myself next week and then recommend to him that he do the same. At least get the ball rolling so I can start my future. Thanks for your words of wisdom, thoughts and support. I really appreciate them. Hugs to you today.

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      From tibi October 3

      al, thanks for the warning. I thought the same thing. My attorney says I am most likely not entitled to half the money, I could file to get it, but it would be expensive and not worth the amount of money I would get from it. He says it would be ruled as part of the division of property in the divorce and that I have already been compensated for my interest in the house. My ex "says" the mortgage co. won't reissue the check because the house was initially in both of our names, he refinanced and this is the taxes and escrow refund. Does that sound "right" to you. I don't trust him, but then my attorney said it was ok to sign. But it still feels suspicious to me too. Here's a big hug back for being so caring---thank you!!

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      From computerbob1 September 28

      Stopped by to leave some fall flowers and a hug and wishing you a happy weekend! http://www.avantegardens.com/image...

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      From tamisue September 26

      Hey! Sorry have been absent for a few. How are you? Planted some mums here at work! I live in an apt so cant there! Hope you have a nice day!

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