Won our hockey game tonight (new pix added)---whoo hoo!! On to championship game next Wed night! We've actually never made the finals before so that's cool!
I had a great chat with my mom tonight - course they stayed at the house to visit the kiddos on their way further south. I happened to be in Vegas during their trip. I hadn't had a chance to talk to her about the 'pulse' in the house. So we have a great chat tonight and get this - she feels that my wife is doing great and has all she wants - house/kids/all bills paid - nothing has really changed for her yet aside from me leaving! And the kicker is it seems as though she really doesn't even miss me as far as a marital spouse is concerned, but rather misses all the things I did for her around the house!!! CAN YOU FREAKIN' BELIEVE IT???!! I told my mom that is EXACTLY how I felt to her! As important as the goddamn 'gardener' or 'pool cleaner' or 'lawn cutter'. Sheesh!! And that's how much I miss her too! This has really fuelled the fire to get me filed because at this point I think she's just playing me because life is good. The pot was put on the stove when I moved out but the heat wasn't turned on yet. Well, boys and girls, it's time to turn it on. I want 50% custody and let's get the damn assets divided and alimony figured out so I can move on with my life!!! ENOUGH!!!!!
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Congratulations on your hockey game. Good luck in the championships. I think it is great that your ex is doing so well. She might just be putting on a front. I don't believe for a moment that a woman who married you and carried 3 of your children does not care less. It might just be easier to pretend so. You should file so you can move on with your life. I hope the custody thing does not get too hairy. Good luck! Kim
kinoka
Time to cheer you on... I'll be one of the cheerleaders yelling GO DMVDOC, GO DMVDOC... and when I do this you can do the same for me too. Question? I know you might have mentioned it before but I don't remember.... does your wife even work? i guess not with the 3 little ones... but when they are in school, she will be working right?
I have worked my entire life except for 4 months (2 for each pregnancy).
ChrisB
What I would give, to have another "chat" with my mom. (omg I'm never going to stop hurting.)
I'm so glad that you're so happy, sweetie. It's so fun to read your posts... (such wonderful energy you have coming from you!)
LisaLGK
File while the feeling is so strong. If you wait, you may change your mind. Congratulations on the hockey win. Good Luck in the Championship game!!
jkhouston
Materialistic people make me sick! Fire away! Just remember the kiddos ;) I'm rooting for ya!
Lori37
That's my boy! You got the fire mustered up, now use that adrenal to GOOD WORK! Kick some &%$! Take back your life and get your soul back. You're on a roll and I'm sooooo proud of U! That's my boy!
Loving2Bme
Just try to stay civil for the babies .but otherwise GO GET HER ! lol stay healthy .Dirty jersey in the house !!!!!! ;)
krystindiane