Divorce isn't ever easy even if …
Divorce isn't ever easy even if it is uncontested I know been there done that.
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OK, it's been a long stretch. I'm passed the 1-yr mark on DS. Haven't been on much in the last 6 months or more as I really feel as though this site is ideally suited for those in a certain 'phase' of recovery as it were and I've really gotten my life back on track & in order so that's cool...Divorced? Not yet (!) officially anyways....I moved out 2(!) years ago last month. We're expecting a court date for an uncontested divorce in June sometime. 6/1/08 is when child support/alimony officially start.
The kiddos are all doing great both socially & intellectually. My stbx is still as passive-aggressive as ever. I know she'll take her bitterness to the grave. I, however, have moved on and this divorce is 98% a business transaction at this point. To all those folks in emotional pain an turmoil, I can tell you that the simple passage of time WILL make you feel better. That's a fact. It lets one separate emotion & actuality/reality. You may not picture being able to ever do that (I certainly didn't) but you will.
I have a wonderful GF....yes, the 'other woman' is still very much a part of my life; she's now finally met the kiddos on several occasions (dinners, parks, museums, etc.) and they all like her.
Dunno who'll be reading this now or who's even left over from a year or more ago but I'm doin' well! :)
Best to all-
Warren (dvmdoc)
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Hey Warren, glad to hear all is well. It has been a long time, glad the end is near. I am proud of you the way you handled things in your divorce. ALthough I will never agree with the OW I still support you for being a super dad and dealing with your divorce in a mature manner.
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Great to see you here. I wonder what was up with ya.
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Glad you're doing well. Thanks for the updated.
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Let me see if I get this straight - you're getting a divorce because you had the "other woman"? Is that right?
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